Wensday is my boyfriend and i's one month anni. and lately hes been sorta loosing intrest in me. like we had plans to go to the mvoies for about 2 days and he goes to me 1 hour be4 the movie "oh sorry i have plans with drew" it was the first time he ever did that so i let it slide. now i was a little paronoid so i asked "hey r we still going to applebees for our anni.?" and he goes"idk i guess" like he couldnt care less. now idk if hes loosing intrest or its been just a bad week. he never did this be4 its the first time so im a little scarred. what should i do? i love him alot and he says he loves me but idk?
2006-11-20 11:13:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
to tell u the truth he probably has lost intrest in you or maybe its that he might want to hang out with his friends more. thats wut happened with my boyfriend one day he started acting lyk that and then he just completly ignored me and then he broke up with me to go out with my friend. but to tell u the truth even though i thought i loved him i wasnt in that much of pain because i started to see the signs that we were gonna break up and saw it coming. So when he starts ignoring u then thats when u should worry a lil bit more and maybe u should start preparing u for the worst and ull see when the big news comes to u then u wont be so surprised and u might not get as much hurt as ur supposed to. And dont worry after u will get over him. My boyfriend and i had been going out for 7 months so must imagine how i was upset but then i started getting closer to my guy best friend and he became my new boyfriend and now i realized that even though i thought that my X was such a good boyfriend my new one is even better.
2006-11-20 13:11:44 · answer #1 · answered by janet556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stanley shouldn't be so attached that you are his whole world. Think about it- if your boyfriend was so obsessed with you that he would refuse to go ANYWHERE without you, wouldn't you be creeped out by it? Stanley is your dog- he is going to be MORE attached to you than your bf, who he has known less time, but you should also encourage him towards a healthy relationship with other people besides yourself. Its healthier mentally for your pet and will be easier for you in the long run. If you encourage an attitude where you are the whole world you can be dealing with separation anxiety issues like the ones my friend deals with when she leaves the house- she can't leave for more than three hours without her maltese without coming home to urine, feces, and a chewed up, destroyed home. You should encourage Stanley to have a connection to more people than just yourself.
2016-05-22 01:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK best thing is for you to do is sit down and talk to him. He could be going through something and he doesn't want you to know about. Boyfriends can sometime be secretive like that. Plus, are you giving him enough space. A guy sometimes needs time to hang with the boys and just chill. So sit down with him, talk it out, and if its over its over and if its not just work at it.
2006-11-20 13:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by meshaangel2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl!
There could be only two things 1# if he keep saying he with Drew he problemly having a relationship with him 2# he is cheating on you and you are something to do. Watch out for the signs girl. This is a web site that you need to see: www.thugporn.com. Start treating him like he is treating you now and get you some one on the side.
2006-11-20 11:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him. I kno its hard but maybe your not talking as much and tsuff no bcz hes destracted with sports or school. Talk to him! Maybe when he goes out with his firneds you can go with him thatll show him ur intrested. You can be a fun friend and a great girlfriend. Good Luck!
2006-11-20 15:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes our "boyfriends" need some time alone it might get annoying to them, to be behind them all the time. Maybe he is having some problems, if he doesnt talk to you about it you shouldnt worry.
2006-11-20 11:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by cancer24star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell him what you think is going on and ask him to just let you know if anything is wrong. have an open talk with him and work things out
2006-11-20 11:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by luv @!nt @lw@yz 3@$y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk 2 him about it its always good to get things out in the open
2006-11-20 11:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by Christina<3sTokioHotel! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school or at least English class for God's sake!!!
2006-11-20 15:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend problems are anywhere near as serious as your spelling problems, then I truly feel sorry for you.
2006-11-20 11:16:03 · answer #10 · answered by Reality 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋