me and my boyfriend had sex on saturday and now im not a virgin im 13 he 14 it happened when he came over and no one was here but me than i was in my room and he came in there we were only kissing at first but than it led to another thing. we did not have a condom
2006-11-20 11:11:34 · 17 answers · asked by luv @!nt @lw@yz 3@$y 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well, I know you don't want to hear any of this but I'm going to try to be nice about it so please listen, ok?
You really shouldn't be having sex if you are only 13, ok? I understand the temptations, why you would want to and everything. I am 14 so I know exactly why, but can't it wait? You only have once to be a kid and if you rush it with sex, drugs and alchohol then what point is there to be a kid? I know you can't redo it, but if you could, would you? I mean really, would you? If you would, and you think you will again before too long then it would be smart to invest in some condoms. I am not saying you should go out and have sex, but if you are going to then at least practice safe sex, ok?
2006-11-20 12:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by starr_wix_wickens_aka.starreyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are not the first young girl who has had an experience like this. You probably know of other girls with similar stories or maybe you saw a movie or read a book about a girl who made the same mistake. What did you think of those girls? Did you say to yourself "I would never let that happen to me" How did your boyfriend make you change your mind?
2006-11-21 01:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was DUMB...! You alwayz use a condom..!! Now you may be pregnant, or you may have an STD...! you don't know how many girls hes been with...Get yourself checked..!! Don't have sex anymore til your married, or smart enough to use protection..!! Wait til your wayy older than what you are...Your too young to be thinking about sex anyway..there is so much more to life then sex...!
2006-11-20 21:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go on birth control now if u r pregnant tell yoyou're parents and u're boyfriend u r way too young to be having sex if u think u r old enough then u should at least have sex responsibly
2006-11-20 19:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Christina<3sTokioHotel! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to tell your mom or who ever takes care of you. i think that was a big mistake but it happened and now you have to deal with it talk to an adult and see if they can get you on birth control or something if you are to scared to tell an adult that you trust you are not old enough to be having sex in the first place.
2006-11-21 16:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by first time mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats s l u t. Now you'll be a 13 year old mom. Really something to be proud of. You are on your way to a miserable life
2006-11-20 19:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes it might happen unexpectedly but even though u dont expect it u should always stop in ur tracks and try to use protection. but i dont know im 13 and my boyfriend 14 but we are both still virgins so just to let u know me and him havent gotten that far we;ve ony gotten to 3rd base. and thats it . but i dont think its that wrong cause thats yall decision.
2006-11-20 21:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by janet556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find some form of birth control. Having sex, at your age, without birth control is just asking for trouble.
2006-11-20 19:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you won't get pregnant. If you think you are old enough for sex at least do it responsibly. It only takes once to make a baby.
2006-11-20 19:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥just me♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are WAY too young for that stuff! sheesh you shouldnt be doing those things at such a young age! thats a horrible trend! you should stop NOW and find something better to do with your time instead!
2006-11-20 20:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋