what can I do to make me have my baby early?
2006-11-20 10:18:50 · 26 answers · asked by Sybl_hernandez 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You are an extremely selfish person. Your baby isnt ready to come out yet! 38-40 weeks is the recommended time to carry a child. How dare you jeopardise your baby's health for the sake of what you want? No im not going to tell you and if anyone does then shame on them too.
2006-11-20 10:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by gr33n_3y3d_grrl 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is a reason why babies develop to stay in the womb for 37-42 weeks.
You may think a 33 week preemie is "cute" or that you're tired of being pregnant...but having a baby at 33 weeks gestation is not an easy ride.
1. You will most definitely NOT get to take your baby home for at least a few weeks. Which means you will be discharged from the hospital and your little baby will likely have to stay in the NICU so that it continue developing as it should have done in the womb.
2. Babies born prematurely are more likely to have hearing and vision problems. I'm one of them. I was born at 36 weeks and have extremely poor vision.
3. You won't be able to show off your baby to anyone. You and your partner/spouse will likely be the only ones allowed to look at your baby let alone hold it.
4. Premature babies are much more likely to die (in the hospital or at home from SIDS) than babies born after 37 weeks.
5. Babies come out when they are ready to, unless there is a serious medical issue that requires that they be born. Usually doctors will only induce a baby this early if they are in serious jeopardy by remaining in the womb.
Please re-think your decision and try to focus on allowing your baby to develop into a healthy newborn...not a sickly one.
2006-11-20 17:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too bad you don't have any patience- because if you have your baby at 33 weeks pregnant- there is a super high risk for the baby to have brain damage and other complications. Would you rather wait a few weeks to have a healthy baby or spend the rest of your life knowing that you are the reason your baby has problems?
2006-11-20 11:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very selfish question, its unsafe to have a baby this premature, you shouldn't be thinking about how to get the baby to come early this is the time your baby is growing the most to get to a decent birth weight. If you went into labour naturally at this stage the doctors would do everything they could to stop it, this is to give your baby the best chance. If you have your baby now it would be sent to ICU until the date your due, you wouldn't be able to hold or feed your baby as it would be to small. The baby would be put on monitors and more then likely have trouble breathing and the heart would be put on overload.
If you go through trying to induce your baby now your risking your baby's life, it may survive but have difficulty growing as it will have many other strains on its body that it shouldn't. Could you live with yourself knowing you put your baby in danger and if it dies then you would be accounted for. Be patient and wait until your baby is ready, don't put your baby in danger that's just stupid and very selfish thinking. 37 weeks is classed as full term so give your baby at leased that long don't be silly, you might kill your baby by bringing it into the world now way before its ready.
2006-11-20 10:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't want to do that and I am going to tell you why, your baby is not considered fully grown, developed until he is 37 weeks, so if you attempt to do something to bring him to this world early you might kill it. At 33 weeks, he wont be able to eat on its own, it will be low birth weight and small. If you attempt to break your water, I would not suggest you to go that because you run the risk of infection and your baby can die from that too. Let nature do its own thing and do yourself a favor and just finish enjoying your pregnancy, when your baby is ready to come out, it will.
2006-11-20 10:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
um..that's too early. you still have seven weeks to go. the baby will come out when it's ready. i know how you feel im 30 weeks and ready for this baby to come out but it doesnt matter how ready I am but how ready the baby is. Hang in there. Maybe the baby will come a little early but hope it stays in there for a few more weeks. The lungs and kidneys probably aren't mature enough for the baby to be born yet.
2006-11-20 11:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by ktpb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, you're not dumb, stupid, or selfish like everyone is saying.
you ARE 33 weeks pregnant and miserable. i've never been pregnant but the pregnant women that i have known said the same thing when they were close to the "finish line".
my advice: Be Patient! Rest! Put your feet up and enjoy a little quiet time for yourself! After you have your baby, it will be 18 years before you get a quiet moment for yourself.
now, to answer your question: have a little hankie-pankie (i'm not sure what words are censored on here). when my cousin was 34 1/2 weeks along (she started to count by 1/2 at the end), her husband was a little anxious for some action since it had been a while for the two of them. shortly afterwards, she went into labor and had a 8 lb. 4 oz. big bundle of joy.
2006-11-20 10:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by kevzvixen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont think u are 4 real. I think u are saying something stupid just to get a reaction from everyone. you cant possibley be that dumb to actually want to have a baby on purpose just because u dont want to be pregnant anymore. If u are 4 real and u do happen to find away to make ur self have this baby early then I pray to God that the evedence shows what u did and they take ur baby away and plaster ur pu**y shut so u can not even ever have sex again to get pregnant ever again. many woman are praying they stay pregnant as long as they can to actually have healthy babies and u are willing to sacrifice ur childs life just so u dont have to deal with the struggles of bringing the greatest joy in to ur life. SHAME ON YOU!
2006-11-20 10:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by goober 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is VERY dangerous to try to have your baby early intentionally! Your baby will come when he/she is ready to be born. I know towards the end you feel like you have been and will be pregnant forever! Be patient, it isn't much longer. It will all have been worth it when you look into the eyes of your beautiful baby for the first time.
2006-11-20 10:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by Patty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm why would you even think about having your baby early...your baby is not ready to come out at 33 weeks
2006-11-20 10:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by last3member2002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋