My husband will turn off our laptop when I walk around the corner or click something off really fast. I thought I saw a glimpse of a porno website, but he deletes the internet history. He's smart enough to cover his tracks. Is there any way for me to dig around in my computer and do some detective work and find out what web sites he's been going to? I know he's looking at porno, he even had his belt buckle undone once :(
2006-11-20 10:16:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
if he uses firefox download the extension in firefox called SessionsSaver .2
it restores the site you were last on when you open firefox.
so if he closes firefox when on a bad website, take the laptop and open firefox again and it will show you what site he was last on.
2006-11-20 10:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nemesis 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just because he has the odd look at some "naughty picures" it doesn't make him a "pervert".It's 2006 not 1906. You should ask yourself "WHY" he feels the need to do it. (or have you not done that yet because you are scared of the answer?) Instead of wanting to try and "catch him out" why don;t you speak to him like an adult and try to resolve it. Ask him why he's doing it. Ask him if he would like to be a bvit more adventurous in your love life etc etc. Maybe he's getting something he can't get anywhere else. Would you rather he had the odd look at some pictures to fulfill this need of would you rather he went and had an affair?
For all you know he's only done it a couple of times. You're making it sound like he's on the net 24/7 oggling hardcore porn.
TBH, I don't think that this is the type of question to ask on a messageboard. It sounds like it's he's not the one with the problem.
2006-11-20 18:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy to recover data without specialized software or hardware. The police use software that can detect items that have been "deleted"...only a complete disk wipe can remove those files.
Some tips: check the internet cache for cookies to sites with names like "smut palace". the cookies must be deliberately deleted, and are often overlooked. If the cache itself has not been dumped, any viewed images will still be stored in the cache. Check your credit card history for any charges you are not aware of...the names may not be "smutty"...just tell him you're doing an audit of all recent expenses and you want to verify last month's purchases.
You can obtain web sensing software that greatly limits access to those sites, and see whether he objects to it. Also - oftentimes the media player will have a URL and file history, too. Check those out. If he is sequestering images and files from porn sites on the computer, a file search for "*.avi" "*.jpeg" and "*.gif" would likely turn up some interesting results.
I am sure that there are other programs that would silently track web usage for you, but I don't know one to recommend offhand.
2006-11-20 18:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by mortis 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ahh babes
Every man will and have look and perv over porn on the net , it's there nature...
I personally would have no problem but it has upset you so why not discuss what you had seen and ask him to be truthful, tell him you just need reassurance that he is still attracted to you ...
Maybe suggest you watch a film together, if not then try to be understanding that its fantasy an would never happen for him what he is pervin over....
Ahhhh wouldn't bother checkin comp, you know what he is lookin at why rub salt in the wounds, just talk to him try to resolve it...
Good luck
2006-11-20 18:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by loulou777 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Watch porn with him. Explore. Sheesh!
I love porn and watch it everyday with my hubby.
It's awesome and doesn't cause people to be unfaithful.
If someone wants to be unfaithful, that person will do it regardless.
He/she doesn't need porn as a motivator.
Porn is great.
Try it. You might like it.
Let him know that you know what he's doing and don't appreciate the secrets but that you are also willing to give it a try.
He might just be looking at it because he feels the desire to spice up your relationship but is just afraid to talk to you about it.
2006-11-22 13:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by SINDY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sneaking around trying to catch him is if anything going to hurt your marrige. Im not saying what he is doing is right though. what you should do is sit down and talk to him about it. figure out what the problem is and then try to come up with a solution that fits both your needs, not just yours. It may be because he has a higher sex drive than you but loves you too much to push you. the important thing is to not sneak and be upfront.
2006-11-20 18:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by southerndawg777 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
How about this... ask him to share. What you don't like looking at porno? Is he over 18? Are you over 18? Then so what if he's looking at porn, you should share it with him. Maybe it will spice up your lacking sex life too.
2006-11-20 18:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by jbgot2bfree 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you ask him about it and not be covert to each other?
If he catches you snooping around anger and frustration will most likely just escalate.
If you aren't able to talk about sex to your husband than you should really evaluate a few things other than if he is looking at porn or not.
2006-11-20 18:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you're suggesting your husband is a pervert because he maturbates to online porn you wrong. It sounds like he has a high sex drive and might not be getting his needs met, or he just likes porn but feels guilty. You should talk to him about it, especially if it's that obvious, not try and "catch him" and make a big deal about it. Do you want him to resent you? You have lots of options here, be careful which one you choose.
2006-11-20 18:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Hahaha. Stop it. Of course he's looking at porno. Relax already. Start taking care of business so he doesn't HAVE to look at other girls.
2006-11-20 18:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋