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Why are we so competitive anyway? Is it a feline carecteristic we picked up through the years?(ex: "cat fight") please do not feel offended, this is coming from one of you.

2006-11-20 10:14:33 · 8 answers · asked by billy 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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I think it's so funny that we are like that. Even if you are the coolest most laid back girl in the world when some strange woman walks into the room you do a quick once-over trying to decide what you think of her, or if you re going to give her a chance at being cool, or immediately assume she is a *****. I used to be pretty bad at that, automatically assuming things about other girls, but then I thought, "what would other girls think of me?" then I became more humble.

Now, I always try to give other girls a chance. I'll talk to them and see what they're all about, then logically decide whether or not she's rude. It is funny though that us girls are like that.

2006-11-20 10:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lexie E 2 · 0 0

ya' no we are playful at times yet fierce and ready to fight( ex. cat fight) at other times. Cat are cute and playful but can be mean and obnoxious otherwise. We are also competitive because that is in our nature lets say a really cute guy went out w/ you and all the other girls wanted to go out w/ him, they were jealous and wanted him for their self. Everyone and thing is competitive except things w/o feelings!! hope this helped!!

2006-11-20 18:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by littlemissflamer 3 · 0 0

It comes from insecurity. We have to put other women down in order to make ourselves feel better.

Example: a guy we like has a model beautiful girlfriend.....
what do we say about her........she must be anorexic, or she
does drugs or something else negative.
You will never hear us say oh she is really beautiful. What a lucky girl cuz he is a really great guy.

2006-11-20 18:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 1 0

Probably coz we always want to look good & want to do & wear things that make us stand out? But, when I was closer with one of my old friends, it seemed like everyday was a competition with her - she even wouldn't give me a guy's number coz she liked him, even though I explained to her that I wasn't interested in him but needed it for a promo!

2006-11-20 18:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by liss 2 · 0 0

Girls hav to keep up their strngth and so they're feircer nowadays. 100 years ago, they were still fierce, only in a cooking way. Cats are pretty and fierce so we're called taht

2006-11-20 18:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by ????????? 4 · 0 0

Its both immaturity and insecurity..and guys play the same "pettiness" in a role playing to be "macho".
Proving to see who has more testosterone hormones, like drag racing, bully fighting/ intimidations etc,etc .....

2006-11-20 18:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I guess its called always wanting to better than the next .

2006-11-20 18:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0 0

yes

2006-11-20 18:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

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