I have 3 best friends until last summer we were a tight crew, like family, it was me Triciepop, Marsbar, Special K and Diamon Collections (our nick names) I suppose I was the glue that brought and kept us together for so many years. Last July we had a party which resulted in a big fight & we all went our seperate ways for a minute. I still remained friends with M & K , recently I secretly starting talking to D, but the other two dont know. They are all my friends and important to me in different ways they are my sisters @ heart, since July Ive delt with each of them separately and individually. Its Thanksgiving & M & K want to come over for thanksgiving and I want to invite D but Im unsure of how they will react expecally K since she volwed to NEVER speak to D again. I want all my friends back and I feel bad for leaving D out when we are so close. I thought about inviting her later. I dont know what to do I care about everyone and just want everyone to get along with no drama.
2006-11-20 10:05:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first of all, you're a great person, and a great friend, and what you're trying to do is bring everyone back together again so you can all be friends. I hope your friends know how lucky they are to have you in their lives. maybe you could try talking to them separately, and see what they all think about everyone being at your house at the same time. and you shouldn't need to feel like you have to keep your friendship with D a secret from M and K.
if M and K have your best interests at heart, they will understand and accept you being friends with D. and hopefully, all three of them will be able to put the past in the past and move on and try to work on being friends again.
just tell M and K how you feel leaving D out on Thanksgiving Day.
you obviously love and care about all three of them, and want what's best for all. you also need to tell them that you feel stuck in the middle. that's not fair to you.
I sincerely wish you the very best, and I will keep you in my prayers.
2006-11-20 10:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres what id do--invite them ALL over 1 nite. Say "Hey..wanna come hang out w/ me 2nite?" When they say yes (if they do) say cool..give them the time....& w8. Call the other 1s 2 & tell them 2 come hang out w/ u. Dont tell them about the others coming over. After a while all of them will show up. This may cause sum problmes but jus say "I luv all of u like sisters. Weve always been there 4 each other thru thick & thin. I really wanna work this out cuz u guys r my best friends. Plz ...lets jus settle this." As 4 the 1s that r no longer close 2 u tell them the same over the phone if u kno their #. I hope this works out. Good luck.
2006-11-20 18:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they r really ur friends that would out aside their differences to make u happy, since u have been there for them. Tell them that everyone will be there and how imporatant it is for u to be friends again.
2006-11-20 18:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should you invite D? i dont know, talk it over with your crew. that is what i would do personally. ive been stuck in this situation a couple times. i dont know follow your heart.
2006-11-20 21:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by jack_attack0322 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite them all and see what happens . it may bring you all back together and it might not , but at least you tried and you will know for sure .
2006-11-20 18:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋