at the moment i feel my best mate is using me for at least the last week she makes plans to meet up wit me then breaks them for a boyfriens/ f***ing partner/fiend woteva he is these days and even when i was round her area yesterday i rang herto see if she wanted to meet up and she cancelled the calls and wouldnt reply to me texts and then just this evening she texts me asking if she can borrow a tenner till tomorrow, i did say no but i dont no what to do im so depressed about it can anyone help?
2006-11-20 09:55:19 · 14 answers · asked by Vicky C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I see...somthing like this happened to me before but you have to move on. Dont believe her and dont make her use you. When she asks something from you dont give to her...but i think the best thing is to talk with her. tell her what you feel and if she really loves you and is your friend as she says, she will understand. Good luck
2006-11-20 09:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably a nice person and sometimes that pays a price,people take advantage. Get rid and make a new mate. People like them only want you when it suits them. That my friend is not friendship.
2006-11-20 10:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by evs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to go out and make a few more friends. I don't think this one is a very good friend and definitely don't lend her money
2006-11-20 20:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by traceylill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must not b really ur friend cus if she was she wouldnt be acting like da or she might be going throught someting. she might think da ur easy to control and use u 2 do ne thing 4 her. forget her find another friend.
2006-11-20 10:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by kima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all go through similar experiences. Get rid of her, soon she will find out what she has been doing to you and will be begging for your friendship. Don't give in.
2006-11-20 11:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by damari_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of girls are users. I have one too. She only calls to go out when she wants to chase some man around. Its so absolutely juvenile. I'm sick and tired of her.
2006-11-20 09:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends, this happens to everyone once in there life you deserve to be treated better
2006-11-20 09:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah and i bet whenever she falls out with mr perfect she is straight round to you! tell her that you arent a bank and if she wants money she can go ask her boyfriend!!
2006-11-20 18:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is just so mean of her to do that to you! If my friend did that to me I'd prolly cry! Then, she would come crawling back to me. Don't worry she WILL regret being so mean to you!
2006-11-20 09:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well mate, i think its time for you to take out the rubish then? yeah? get a new mate.
2006-11-20 09:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋