ok, so it's been a couple of months that in the middle of the night, my fiance can assure me that i'm touching myself, as weird as it may sound, i don't realize what i'm doing and sometimes wonder if he's telling me the truth, but he swears up and down that it happens, and i don't see any reason for him to lie about that. It really upsets him that i do that and we get into arguments becuase of it.....does anyone have any idea of what's going on? he says it happens in the middle of the night and has woke me up at times when he assures me i just finished doing it...one example was last night, he said i was touching my self and the only dream i was having was not anywhere near sexual......please help how can i stop it?
2006-11-20 09:44:49 · 14 answers · asked by maui 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why stop? It's a natural thing. Don't fret about it. It's a part of being human...don't fight your natural instincts.
2006-11-20 09:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sleep Al Bundy style. With my hand just in my shorts. Sometimes when falling asleep I sort of comb through my pubic hair with my fingers. Not a sexual thing, just a form of self relaxation. I don't monkey around with the local parts at all. I have been accused of "playing with myself" because I do this.
I think this might be similar to what you do. Unless you are totally uncovered, and nude, and there is some light your boyfriend cannot see exactly what is going on.
If for some reason you are doing a little more, well, I think your boyfriend should not mind at all...as long as he gets plenty of attention from you otherwise.
2006-11-20 18:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by raksasha_de_lune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I don't know why it bothers your fiance. The guy must be a prude. Of course, on the other hand, maybe he's the one touching you while you're asleep and saying it's you to try and cover up.
2006-11-20 17:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part of it bothers him? I don't know any man who would have a problem with their gf/wife pleasing themselves. You may want to check into seeing a sex counselor to explore why this happens and why it bothers your fiance as much as it does. Good luck.
2006-11-20 18:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by PisceKween 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b.friend needs to grow up, i do it in my leep sometimes without realising it, it is very natural, also half the time i feel my b/friend up and dont know it and he certainly doesnt complain!!
2006-11-20 17:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by TRACY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a serious talk with him. its not your fault! my boyfriend keeps his hands in his pants without knowing and i have no idea wut he dreams about. i dont even bother to care. u have more than 500 dreams a nite, u just remember one or two at times. there is no connection to you touching yourself and you having sexual dreams and you should make him realize that. and besides...why would it bother him?! wouldn't it be something he'd wanna watch?
2006-11-20 17:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why his d*ck is hard when he wakes up first thing in the morning. Its something he cant control and neither can u!
2006-11-20 17:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet He's touching you and is covering his tracks..tell him to video tape you doing it
2006-11-20 17:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont...its only a dream ...he touches him self also....when he gets up in the morning ....its hard isnt it ...its the same thing...so whats the real problem...thats the real question
2006-11-21 23:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would go to your doctor and see if she could help you with something like this.
2006-11-20 17:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by shemika kiker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋