We're both in relationships (and both having problems) and we were hanging out at her house. We were having fun, just doing stuff we normally do but then she put her hand on the back of my neck and pulled me in. We ended it up making out for a couple of minutes before I realized what I was doing. I didn't fight it so does that mean I did something wrong? Am I suppose to feel differently about her? Right now the only thing I can feel is confusion.
2006-11-20 09:44:04 · 24 answers · asked by YungFlip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
mmmmmmmm be careful if she is having problems with her man she may just be feeling low and needed to feel loved.
But then again she just might have feelings for you.
sounds to me you need to sit down and talk about this with her.
but remember there are a other to people involved in this who might end up getting hurt so be very careful in what you do
2006-11-20 09:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by jambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means you have more feeling for your best friend than your girlfriend and she feels the same way. It is wrong because you cheated on your girlfriend and the first thing both of you should do is tell the ones you are in the relationship and as you and your bestfriend become closer you two probably make a great couple falling for a best friend is always better than falling for someone you don't know. I have been there and done that.
2006-11-20 09:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Waiting for Madelyn :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend and I were in a very similar situation 5 weeks ago. Life is stressful and every once in a while, you need an outlet. Don't worry about it. I mean, hey! it was fun wasnt it? As long as you two don't start hooking up every weekend, let it go. It was a kiss shared between two good friends without bad intentions!
2006-11-20 10:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. Do you like her? Would you like to be in a relationship with her? if you don't have those kinds of feelings for her, then you probably should have stopped her from kissing you, because it might give her the wrong idea.
However, if you do like her, then I wouldn't get too worked up about the two of you being in relationships. You sound young. I wouldn't take anything too seriously.
Talk to her about it. See how she feels, and then tell her HONESTLY how you feel about her, and how you feel about what happened. Good luck!
2006-11-20 09:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, you may be going in from a friendship into a relationship. Love is blind, and when you are in it you don't fight it. You didn't do anything wrong, you just had a connection. I also read that you are friends, and great couples are also great friends.
2006-11-20 09:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by simpsonsfan#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you feel inside about her and now you know that she feels a little more than just friends. Maybe just talking to her about it would be best because if your both having problems elsewhere maybe you to would be good for each other.
2006-11-20 09:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by jay h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys probably just got caught up in the moment u should not b feelin anythin but if u do then u do. it is somethin wrong becuz ur girl would b so mad if she found out ..its ur decision to tell her or not.oh and u gotta talk to ur best friend about bcuz then it would b very awkward betwween u and her.
2006-11-20 09:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by babycrystal12195 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it means anything. You should just call up your friend and talk about what happened.
2006-11-20 09:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by C&J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want it to mean...i know your thinking something in the back of you mind
2006-11-20 09:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpeach8684 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, is confusion what you feel....but if you kissed her and didnt back off...it means youve got feelings for her...
2006-11-20 09:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋