My friend is going out with this boy in the grade below us. They've been going out since the beginning of school, and they broke up a few times (for about five seconds!). Each time she was devastated. On Friday, we went to a school dance. Her boyfriend wasn't there, so she felt free to dance with a mutual friend of ours. After the dance, she told me that she liked (and I mean OBSESSIVE liked) the guy she was grinding with at the dance. The next day, she had me ask him if he liked her, and he said he was thinking of asking her out. She hasn't broken up with her boyfriend, though, and I'm not sure she's going to! What should I tell her, and what is WRONG with her?
2006-11-20 09:33:10 · 12 answers · asked by aishabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh yeah, in case it helps, I haven't met her longtime boyfriend yet. She just hasn't gotten around to it. My other friend met him and wasn't that impressed.
2006-11-20 09:39:49 · update #1
She is playing the "boyfriend" of hers for a fool. I mean, she is, really. I think that, once this all blows up in her face, she may want to run and cry next to you about everything. This is what I think you should do.
I think you should ask her what her problem is. Then, if she wants to date both of them, then she will be the one who will break up with him-with no help. This is her mess and she will be the one who will get out of it. Do not do anymore with this mess she is getting herself into. If that boyfriend ask you about what is going on, just tell him that he needs to talk to her, not you, because you are out of this.
2006-11-20 09:44:18 · answer #1 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is really wrong with her its normal for her to go throw boy to boy because she has to find the person she wants to spend the rest of her life with but you should tell her if she thinks that right and she likes this guy more then her boyfriend Then go ahead but just think what she is doing to this other guy if she just want to go from boyfriend to boyfriend
2006-11-20 17:39:43 · answer #2 · answered by jenrocks151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her that 'toying' with the hearts of two young men is wrong. She should be honest and tell each of them how she feels. It's not right for her to leave her boyfriend waiting. Before that, and I think more importantly, she needs to decide how she truly feels about both of them.
2006-11-20 18:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by meg s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she just always wants to like someone, & it could have just been the way that she danced with this other guy that made her like him. Pull her together though & tell her she can only have one of them.
2006-11-20 17:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she really likes this guy. just make sure she doesnt like him for the wrong reasons. i think you should probably stay out of it as much as you can. drama only gets you into trouble. im sure what she chooses will be a good decision for her.
2006-11-20 17:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably in the midst of the moment..if not just tell her that its wrong and not to do it..and if she does than let her be and she'll get caught eventually!!
2006-11-20 17:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by babycrystal12195 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with her is she is a school aged little girl, she is emotionally confused and has no buisness grinding with anybody anywhere.
2006-11-20 17:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Matt E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell if she really likes this guy she needs to break up with her other boyfriend. and lord who knows what the heck is wong with her . . .
2006-11-20 17:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Italia Grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what u heard about her, but she tryna be a P.I.M.P.
SIKE BUT SHE WILL EVENTUALLY MAKE A CHOICE OR SHE WILL GET IN A CASE WHERE SHE WONT HAVE EITHER OF THEM
2006-11-20 17:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u kool with her bf tell him and if not tell her be like thats messed up would u want sumone to do that to u
2006-11-20 17:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Reefer Goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋