my friend and i last year were very close but this hear all she does is talk behind my back and she mad my other friends mad at me. i am so mad. i dont want to hang out with them anymore but i have no one else to hang out with because its hard ot make friends in my school. im so confused and i need 2 do somthing because i cant take this.
2006-11-20 09:28:19 · 21 answers · asked by sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ya, that's hard. Make new Friends!
2006-11-20 09:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is talking about you behind your back then she is not your friend. If the other friends are angry at you then you need to try and find another group to hang around with, because that isn't fair on you.
Have you considering joining any groups within your school, or are their any local youth groups you could join, if so maybe its worth considering finding out what other activities you could do.
Also what about volunteering or becoming a connect friend to disable children or people with learning difficulties this is because if you were to do something like this you would be mixing with a totally different group of people and that will get you away from these people that are making you unhappy
2006-11-20 09:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There not your freinds then are they!!!...i was just like you at school and found it hard to make friends but realised my best m8 in the world was..ME , im the only person i can trust, if you dont like hanging round on your own at lunch myb think bout the library being an option to read or spend time on the sch. puter also if your other freinds are mad at u coz of this girl then it shows they are not worth it either, n they must b a weak bunch if they are going to listen to every1 else chin up xxx
2006-11-20 10:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by greyhound mummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these people are making you feel bad then you really can do without them. Their negative energy is bringing you down!! Have you tried approaching your friend about the situation? If you haven't, i can uderstand that you'd be hesitant to do so, but someitmes it works. But if you don't want to swallow your pride to do that just remember to always try to associate yourself with positive people, you definitely do not need all the drama. You say that you have noone else to hang out with...well sometimes you have to distance yourself from these people. When they see that you're capable of being independant of them and that you don't need them, they're probably going to feel like idiots themselves. You honestly don't need fake friends in your life. Take it from me, i've been there. It may take awhile, but you're spirit will feel much better when you remove these negtive people from your life. Don't force yourself to be around them, cause then you'll probably end up feeling bad about yourself for faking it too, and being around people that are up to no good. Take some time for yourself, and ignore them!!
2006-11-20 09:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by smooches! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the same thing that happened to me one year if this girl wasn't having a good day she would make the whole class agents me and all my friends! i no how you feel right now and its really hard i use to go home and cry but what i did is i got a journal and i would write all the mean and nasty things this person did to me and after a while i realized that it helped and also this girl might have some problems like her/his parents might be broken up or they feel so confident that they think no one else is better but try the journal thing and i hope it helps and i hope you feel better!! :)
2006-11-20 09:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by jenrocks151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but I do know that that / friends talking behind your back/ does not necessarilly change with age. I am middle aged and it still happens to me.. Try to ask them why, so you can understand their point of view. If you agree or disagree, that will be the decision you will make about what to do.
2006-11-20 10:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by barb b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easy to make a friend anywhere as long as you just put yourself out there and just go for it. People will see your outgoing personality and thet'll really enjoy it. Dont be embarrased or afraid and esp dont talk about your previous friends talking crap about you, even though it bothers you inside, brush it off and show the world that stupid things like that dont bring you down, and that you dont subject yourself to dumb stuff like that. You know youre better than that and pick people who are like that too. Godd luck babe
2006-11-20 09:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Brittney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what her problem is. then find out from the other friends if they would choose her over you. see this is why i don't get too close too fast because ppl will go behind your back. if u need a friend i'm here
2006-11-20 09:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by daddysgurlnyc718 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she isn't worth trying to be friends with. You should leave them all, and make new friends, no matter how hard it it. There are people who would be friends with you at your school.
2006-11-20 09:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Miki-chan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are going through i went through the same thing in high school well what i suggest to stop talking to those girls because friends don't talk about friends behind there backs. and you'll see who are your real friends when you stop talking to the gossip bunch. stop making yourself so stressful they are not worth so much attention from you. don't flatter them
2006-11-20 10:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lolita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋