2006-11-20 09:16:20 · 13 answers · asked by pangfvlx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never if you know anything about keeping a strong emotionally connected marriage books do just as well and I do not mean porn I mean educational books. Porn is very disrespectful to women and if you want your man/woman to get obcessed with this trash.
Porn kills relationships should be banned worldwide.
2006-11-20 17:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i tried the porn thing, doesn't work out that well. i mean you do get to fantasizing a bit about the girls on that porn, well, it's rather abstract, but i think it's more offensive than anything to that other person.
porn just isn't something that you can share between two people i don't think. i can't speak for other men; but there is something about the voyeuristic aspect of it, but i don't think it belongs in the marriage.
every once in a blue moon I'll bring it up and try to go back to it, particularly if it's in your face, like on PPV or perhaps someone is selling it, like walking past a club, eg. funny thing is, the one time i was in a position to go into the club, and i went ahead with it, i couldn't stay in there, knowing that she was outside.
she seemed to be OK with it, i truly think that she was, but it wasn't like, if i were alone and could have spent hours and blown a lot of money.
some relationships just can't withstand people enjoying things together, i think that's why a lot of relationships don't withstand threesomes; i couldn't enjoy it, be paranoid wondering what she's thinking, too scared to do anything.
the funny thing is, she probably thinks i spend time and money with it when she isn't around, or would, but i can't really anymore. i don't do much anymore than i used to, if you want to be completely honest; either i'm settling down into this relationship or are just loosing interest in sexual stuff or something.
2006-11-20 11:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have mirrors in the bedroom, so the "porn" we watch together is us. I may buy him a video camera for Christmas this year, so he can watch us even when I'm not there. Does that count?
He does watch porn when we can't be together, or he calls me and we do it over the phone. Myself, porn doesn't interest me - it's usually too much girl-on-girl and anal 'action' for my taste.
2006-11-20 09:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-22 18:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by elenor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not married so i'm not sure but i think that too much is when you need to watch porn or use the extras to have sex, you and your partner are no longer the only thing you need in the sexual relationship.
2006-11-20 09:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by burn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because he's a guy. that is well-known except he does it 24/7 .that is well-known for adult adult males to look at porn often times .they could locate genuine bare women people to look at . it really is what adult adult males did a good number of cases formerly there replaced into porn accessible.
2016-11-29 07:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by crabtree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought marriage was supposed to be "sacred"??????
I mean, why get married????
No, I am not married, but when I do, I will save all my sexual needs for my husband alone, thank you very much!
The priviledge of a sexual union between two married people are for them to share ALONE, together...once you start lusting after others, you have let others into this special union. Its not an "anything goes" just because you are married.....if the union of marriage is so damn special, then so should ALL OF GOD'S COMMANDMENTS! You cannot just pick and choose which of God's words you wish to follow...it doesn't work that way.
2006-11-20 09:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I guess it depends on the people if their both comfertable doing it together then however often they want to. Me and hubby watch mabey once a month
2006-11-20 09:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by heidi19852006 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When your sitting at a resteraunt betting on which couples are going to start doing it on the table with the hot waitress, thats when its too much porn.
2006-11-20 09:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Happily married couples do not do this. The wife should be educating the husband on how degrading porn is to women, and that women are to be cherished and respected.
2006-11-20 09:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋