2006-11-20 08:46:11 · 26 answers · asked by moi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No you should let it go, dont harbor those feelings of hate and revenge, she did not cheat on you, your husband did.
2006-11-20 08:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
.....u can not make anybody love u. U ought to appreciate that ur chum does not experience an similar way about u. U were given too deep with it. In a friendship, u favor ur chum to be at liberty. now and again u ought to enable flow a touch for them to. In ur case u had to enable her spend her time with Antonio. Its not all about u. She has a existence outdoors of u. She has a kinfolk wit this guy. U ought to appreciate that there is a huge difference between friendship and love. This guy she loved she had deep emotions for. She might want to not enable those emotions flow so she took him decrease back. She forgave him because he's on a diverse aspect and to be honest he has diverse guidelines. on the different hand, u were her chum for 11 years. it really is a lengthy time period and u damage her like that. a chum could recognize more effective than that. On authentic of that for 6 MONTHS! it really is hurtful. If u extremely loved and cared about her u wud not have done that. authentic chum does not have done that and highly not 4 that lengthy. Ur extra incorrect then he's because u were her very close chum that she knew for the longest and u had an affair and enable it flow on 4 so long. Yea so did he yet like i reported even as it contains love there are diverse guidelines (regrettably) there are diverse guidelines highly because he does not understand ( and by no potential will) the friendship u too had and the bonding. U shud study from this and delivers her area for a lengthy time period yet nonetheless enable her recognize ur sorry and that u r there 4 her each and every once in a lengthy time period yet make it short and sweet do not argue or lead on verbal substitute. Then with somewhat of luck she will be able to go back round sometime yet no guarantees. sorry lesson realized i wager.
2016-11-29 07:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by crabtree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! Why should she be able to boink your husband and then get off scot free? Tell the guy. It's not his fault that is live in g/f is a sleaze bag. He needs a heads up. You owe it to yourself and this other man to come clean.
If you don't tell him, you're not only protecting the woman and your husband whom cheated on you; but you are condoning their behavior. You owe your husband nor this other woman one thing. Besides, you will make a believer out of your hubby too. If he's still in the picture.
2006-11-20 08:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I assume (dangerous thing of course) that your husband had the affair with the female mentioned as living with boyfriend?
I would say no - you've already been hurt, and vengeance isn't likely to make you feel better in the long term, though it might in the short term.
Let it go, and try to work on your relationship with your husband.
Just my .01
-dh
2006-11-20 08:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Remember, it's the messenger who gets "shot", not the person who did the action. Why do you want even involve yourself in this? You'll look like the bitter wife looking for revenge. Let it go with them and avoid all contact.
2006-11-20 08:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by Joe S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am thiknigto do the same to the woman that my husband has cheated on me with her since she is married but still can't make up my mind for am affraid he would tell mind ur own bisuness and instead of coming to me go and fix ur problem with ur husband.he could couldn't he
2006-11-21 03:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by maya7103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may make you feel better at first to tell her boyfriend but you will still have the same miserable feeling afterwards...so it is really for to decide on what will you gain from telling her boyfriend
2006-11-20 08:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to? Getting even, maybe? Nothing is going to make this situation right and getting even only makes you a smaller person. Don't deal with anything other than your own hurt and betrayal by your husband.
Good luck to you.
2006-11-20 08:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you know him, yep. You would have wanted the same courtesy from him had the roles been reveresed. The b**** deserves no mercy.
2006-11-20 08:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It won't make you feel any better and it won't change anything. If you are doing, because you know this guy and feel bad for him than sure. Hope you left your husband, and took everything he was worth.
2006-11-20 08:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by buxomkity 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Send him a note.
She should have thought of the consequences before she jumped into bed with your hubby
2006-11-20 08:49:31 · answer #11 · answered by extremely_confused 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋