will any one of you guys would travel from your place to your friends place ( 30miles away), in order to take your female friends(not your girl friend) out for groceries,malls,movies, restaurants etc every other day because they don't have a car and you do, even though they are in a better financial position than you are and can easily afford a car ? Also, since you being the man and you took them out will you end up paying there bills ?
2006-11-20 08:44:54 · 10 answers · asked by shark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what if you take them say not every other day but may be around 3 -4 times a month ?
2006-11-20 09:00:07 · update #1
No way. I'm afraid you might be getting used. Perhaps you are the giving type of person who likes to help out. Unfortunately that kind get taken advantage of often.
I don't see anything wrong with a few times a month, but every other day is excessive.
2006-11-20 08:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Melton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gallery here seems to think your being taken advantage of.
I wonder??? You mention Female friend. I assume she shares some of the cost? You seem to have a good time.
But the question is Would I drive the 60 miles for a friend?
Most likely but the frequency would be more like weekly.
The main cities for me are Lakeview = 55mi KlamathFalls = 100mi Redding = 150mi Susanville = 95mi Reno = 195mi Sacramento = 400mi.
2006-11-20 09:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's doable but only for a short period of time. If she can find no other way to pay her bills, then it might be the only option. Would I do it? Probably only until the bills were paid... Would I recommend it? Definitely not. There's got to be a way that she can do some paid job at home while the baby is napping. She should notify her creditors of her intentions to pay what she owes over a longer period of time.
2016-05-22 01:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't realized it y now...you are being played for a sucka BIG TIME....
A person or "friend" will only do to you what yoallow them to so....STOP lettin them play you for a fool...
Make sure you get something in return cause they are probably laughing at you and the fact that you are available whenever they need you to be.....Be Smart About It
2006-11-20 08:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No me paying bills ill be like afford your own car i aint talkin you 2 any of these places they are probably taking advantage of you
2006-11-20 08:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Breezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it every other day.
Or, ask for gas money, if you make a trip specifically to take them places.
And don't offer to pay for their lunch/dinner/movie or whatever social activity you do that day.
2006-11-20 08:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i'm really that person's friend i won't even do that to him. friendship are not selfish and shouldn't be taken for granted. if we value a friendship we should be doing things that are beneficial for each other not for one self. moreover, we are adults and should be able to take care of our daily activities even without a car.
2006-11-20 08:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I have the time and they have the money I won't mind driving.
2006-11-20 08:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. bad idea. your being used/.
2006-11-20 08:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
road trip!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-20 08:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋