Ok so me and my friend were getting of the bus and she said ever since you entered the sixth grade you have been acting like alexis (my other friend she is also black) so that made me mad. so if i tell her i dont want 2 be her friend anymore than she will like talk about me and we have been freinds since the last day of kindergarten. SHould i be her freind or should i not be her friend
2006-11-20 08:44:18 · 11 answers · asked by Breezy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know what she is probably jelauos cuz i always hang out with her than Hannah
2006-11-20 08:51:30 · update #1
If she is making you mad try to gradually stop being friends...talk less and less 2 her....find new friends. If you stop being her friend all of a sudden she will talk about you.
2006-11-20 08:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Heyhey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you all have been Friends for what seems like a long time, but it really isn't. It is okay if you are mad at her and she is mad at you. True friends will get mad with one another and make up. Friendship is about going through good and bad times together. If you feel that telling her you don't want to be friends with here right now or her comment made you feel bad, will upset her and cause her to talk about you, behind your back. She was never your friend. If she is your friend and you are hers you all will talk about it. If not you have the rest of your life to make new friends. Just remember true friends are like orecious diamonds. Once you get them you want to hold on to them for life.
2006-11-20 16:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by Proud Momma of 4mth old Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend. When I was in 6th grade me and my friends got in fights all of the time but it went away when we got into junior high, it'll blow over if your really THAT mad about it over something that i think isn't worth getting mad over talk to her about it ask her why she thinks that you act like your other friend alexis and that you don't want to be like alexis and that you want to be you and not anyone else. I hope this helps and that it made SOME sense ^.^
2006-11-20 16:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence but you sound like your both still in kindergarten, people change after time and your friend should accept you changing otherwise its a clash of personalities and you both aint going to get along but it seems somehing stupid to lose a long friendship. friends should be there for eachother through ups and downs and all the changes...if you are really that good of mates you will stay together
2006-11-20 16:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by meekaboox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people get older, their intrests change and they tend to drift apart. If you are acting more llike your friend Alexis perhaps you and her have more in common.
You shouldn't be mad at your friend for saying that, it's probably true, and she probably feels your friendship is threatened.
You and your friend don't have to be best friends, you can still be casual friends.
2006-11-20 16:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Melton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is jealous of your friendship with Alexis. I think you should still remain friends with her. All she said was that you act like Alexis, don't you think that is more of a complement.
2006-11-20 16:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Tabitha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think tht u 2 should still be friends bcuz if you hav been friends this long then u can stick through an argument and you guys can probably make up before u know it!
2006-11-20 16:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats tough... do u still want to be friends? if so , then talk to her, she may be jealous that u are hangin around with alexis....
2006-11-20 16:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should talke to her first. then if you work everything out then you should be her friend but if you dont then you shouldnt be her friend.good luck.
2006-11-20 16:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by nini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-23 10:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by §antababy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋