I am a 25 yr young pretty nice lookin lesbian female and know that I am good n bed.
(Not tryna toot my own horn but.... TOOT....TOOT) I have never had a complaint from any1.
Why is that I cant get the same n return i have never had sum1 put it on me and make me say damn!! Even though i have only been with three women but come on what am i doin wrong why cant i find a chick that can please me???
Is it because i am too young?? I know i am probably kickin myself n the butt with this Question but can sum1 give me an ok answer?
2006-11-20 08:32:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
try helping them....get you off...tell them what you like, don't like....because if you don't tell them they won't know..so they will do it how they like it which may be not what you like.
2006-11-20 08:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, You can not go into any sexual experience and say, OH YEAH I KNOW WHAT I AM DOING AND I AM GOOD!
That will ultimately bite you in the ***!
All people are different.
Sex is not going to be great everytime you have it!
Three women is not a lot unless you were with them for long periods of time.
I think If everyone would go into sex aiming to please it will all even out.
Unfortunatley some people take sex too seriously and that doesn't allow for relaxing and being patient.
You will be amazed at how good it is if you are patient and if both parties want to please!
Good LucK!
2006-11-20 18:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person needs different things to be fulfilled. Its not just about sex.... Maybe you need someone to play with you on an emotional level... See a women is about the mind. The dance of seductions is what brings her over the edge. The thrill of the dance before the session is what make the "damn" come out...
Maybe your with people who aren't imaginative, or freak in the sheets....... Good luck...
2006-11-20 09:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl let me tell you....I too have been in this situation. I was puttin it down like NONE other (when she cries from cumming so hard.....thats how u kno its GOOD) but i just wasnt gettin the favor returned. Soooo....i just made it all interactive. I showed her how 2 touch me, where 2 touch me, when to do this & that.....& lucky for me i had a quick learner and now we both skip around all day gigglin & what not cuz we r both gettin laid better than EVER before. Just be patient & UNafraid to let your partner know what u like & dislike. ALSO...dont listen to these homophobic people who claim u werent made for another woman to please.....HA!! My girlfriend pleases me more than a man could ever even begin to attempt! So keep tryin..you'll get it :-)
2006-11-20 09:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should teach her. Tell her that you would like to show her a few techniques and do it to her first. You could make it into a fun game so you don't have to hurt her feelings.
2006-11-20 10:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your thing, try playing top for a minute and tell them to do what you like. Maybe they'll take the hint?
Or, if it's a longer standing relationship, let them know. Say, "This is what I like..." "I love it when you..." "It makes me hot when you..." etc.
2006-11-20 08:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by jr_crime_fighter 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I had to masterbate inorder to learn how to orgasm. AND then I had to teach my partners...I'm fickle.
Atleast you're working with woman, try some clumbsy ape man who can't understand harder means PAIN not pleasure!!!!!
2006-11-20 09:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
u just have to be patient and teach them how u want to be pleasured but then again if it waz me in your life you wouldnt be complainin you'll be too busy moanin in pleasure..yes i got it like that!
2006-11-20 12:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhmmm... you answered your own question, darlin'... you've only been with 3 women.
2006-11-20 13:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by revenueforge 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to communicate what you like to them...Thats what I did..AND BOY WAS IT GREAT! Good luck.. : )
2006-11-20 16:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell whomever u r with what u like, and or dislike or they won't know. there r chicks out there that can please u, u just have to find them.
2006-11-20 08:45:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋