can u help me please I'm scared?

Question

Oh my god like i took a pregnancy test and im 14 and it came out positive im scared how am i going 2 tell my mom den i telled my boyfriend and he said if my parnets found out i am goin 2 get kicked out my house...Help me please im scared!!!!!!=(

Answer 1

You've put yourself into a unique position. You're still legally a child, but you've done a very adult thing by having sex, and now you have to deal with the adult consequences of it. Unfortunately for you, this means you have to grow up a bit early. I know it probably frightens you to death to think about it, but you have to tell your parents. They are your family. The only people I've ever known to come through a situation like this did so with the support of their family. I'm not going to kid you, this will NOT be easy. But being an adult never is. And by the way, your boyfriend doesn't know what your parent's reaction will be. He probably said that because he is just as afraid as you are. No matter what your parents' reaction is, remember there are support services out there for people just like you. It's time for you to buck up - because what's inside you is depending on you.

Answer 2

First, I don't even know if this is real, judging from the way you write, but I'll assume it is. So, not to preach but do you see now that being a "hot sexy girl" isn't exactly the smartest way to go? First, you're going to have to tell your parents. Second, have someone find your boyfriend and beat the s h i t out of him, then forget him. Then, go to a doctor and begin your prenatal care, and see this thing you've started through to the end. Sometime during the pregnancy, you'll decide whether or not it's best to keep the baby or give him/her up for adoption. Then, you will have learned a valuable lesson and you will go on with your life. None of the bad things you imagine will probably come true, and you will grow behind the experience. One last thing: DO NOT KILL THAT CHILD, WHATEVER YOU DO. That is something you'll never be able to live with, and you can't understand that fully untill after you've done it and it's too late. Good luck to you; things are going to work out for you, I promise.

Answer 3

First off... to MR... I think it's a bit late for judgement right now! Back off!
Now, I am sorry you are going through this. It is very scary and I know that you feel lonely, but you aren't the only girl in the whole world who has gotten pregnant so young. The best advice I have is to tell them with a third party present. I don't know your parents, but it may not be as awful as it sounds. I'm sure they will be upset, but parents (and I say most) love their children NO MATTER WHAT, not so long as they don't "mess up." There are so many programs out there for young mothers now. Talk to your school counselor... he or she may have information on local organizations and crisis pregnancy centers. Hold your head high... and ask your boyfriend if he's going to be there or not. You don't NEED a boyfriend, and if he won't support his child and you... get rid of him!!!

Answer 4

What are you doing having sex at 14. Your still a child! Talk to your mother. Are you ready to have a baby? Babies cost money. I am 25 years old just had my daughter one year ago and it is hard as ever. I work, go to school, pay bills and am a full time mom its difficult. Talk to your mom maybe she can help you if not way out your options. And just remember you are no longer a child when you have a baby , life is not going to be the same, and whose to say what your boyfriend will do is he going to be there or leave. You heard his answer. Neither one of you are ready. Good Luck! If you need to chat im here.

Answer 5

oh honey! well first of all I'm gonna give u a little tough love, were ya scared when you laid down and opened your legs? U acted like an adult when you had sex, now you need to act like one and tell the people who are gonna be responsible for you and your new little problem. That baby is gonna need you to grow up real quick, starting now! Now, I know you are scared, hell I was 20 w/ my first and I was scared. But you made the choice and now and you have to deal. Tell your parents right away and be mature about it. Good luck and God bless

Answer 6

Be honest with your Mother and ask for help. As a mom, I would want to know whats going on with my daughter and keeping secrets would hurt so badly.

She loves you and want to be there for you I'm sure, not telling her will just make you feel worst and more alone. Trust in the ones that love you the most and you will get the help you need and the decision will come easier, good luck

Answer 7

I am really sorry! I feel so sorry for you. I don't think that your parents will kick you out though. My mom was really young when she had me, I got abandoned... I'm sure there's a way to fix all this, you could put the child up for adoption. I cant tell you much more, sorry I'm only 13.

Answer 8

Think of it this way: I'm not saying don't trust your boyfriend, because I absolutely hate it when people tell pregnant teens that they're immature and all that bullcrap. But he doesn't know for a fact that your parents are going to kick you out of the house, and I very very highly doubt that they will. You need to tell them- figure out the easiest way how to, and no matter how long it takes and what happens, they probably love you and will forgive you and will make sure that everything works for you.

Answer 9

Go to your nearest planned parenthood. They should have all the resources you need. Whatever you do, don't panic and terminate the pregnancy. They're millions of people out there who would love to be in your shoes right now. If planned parenthood can't help, go to your nearest social services. They definitely will be able to help you. Good Luck!

Answer 10

good luck.

my mom pulled the if you were to ever get PG under my roof you would have an abortion or be kicked out but later down the road when i got older she said it was a bluff. talk to your parents. Are you thinking of keeping this baby? you have a tough road a head of you if so.