i used to have a really bad inner rage problem and would just explode with anger in the street, and get into staring myself. ive gotten a hell of alot better but i still have these problems and horrible mood swings im trying to get my psychiatric problems attended to, im wanting a second opinion. however whenever i go out, which isnt much because of panic attacks and the fear i might lose control of my anger. i can feel peoples eyes on me, watching staring, and when ive looked around sometimes, ive noticed a few people actually are looking at me...i plan to move away near the coast and eventually emmegrate but i cant do that i feel till ive attended to my problems..i keep thinking are they doin it because of how i used to be or am i being ostrasised
2006-11-20 08:06:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just tell yourself that they are staring at you because you are amazingly good looking. Then all they will be doing is boosting your ego. Good times.
2006-11-20 08:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by anysomeone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because they think you look really hot. Sometimes when I see a very nice looking guy I stare at him. I like to try and get his attention just to see what might happen. It could be that you are attractive or interesting. I hope that's the reason anyway. Sincerely, Terry
2016-05-22 00:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're actually getting help and not just talking about getting it in the future. Just keep in mind that we all look at each other, and what you think is staring is almost certainly just someone looking at you because he sees you coming and wants to be sure not to bump into you. We all watch out for each other this way - doesn't mean we all want to fight.
I'm glad you've been getting better and understand your problem, but I hope you're doing something about it NOW.
Good luck.
2006-11-20 08:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile at them. Most people are so rapped up in themselves that they're not even going to notice you. Also, a smile goes a long way - it makes them feel good and when they smile back, it makes you feel good. Hope you sort it out. good luck.
2006-11-20 08:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by Female O ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are drawing attentiont to yourself...didn't you say you bleached your hair and beard once here? Maybe people are admiring the way it looks and their not staring at you at all...if you don't want to see people staring at you,...don't make eye contact with them..they actually are probably admiring you, but your self esteem is so low that you think they are mocking you.
2006-11-20 09:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you continue to face your fears you will eventually go out with no problems...
2006-11-20 08:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by sk4ever69 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
see a mental health care specialist
2006-11-20 08:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by La Reina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your eyes on the ground and reeee-lax. :o)
2006-11-20 08:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Somebody 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋