want other people to give them advice on what to do because their dumb@sses didnt use some type of contraceptive and because of that they have an unwanted pregnancy. I think people should just shut up and step up to their soon to be responsiblity. If your stupid enough not to use some kind of contraceptive then its your fault if you end up with an unwanted pregnancy. Deal with it. Its real sad how people can can just sleep around and not seem to give a damn if they become pregnant or not! Its real and its life. I dont think people truly understand what it means when you have a baby out of wedlock. Babies need lots of money and lots of attention. It just really pisses me off sometimes to see questions like that.
2006-11-20 08:01:55 · 17 answers · asked by . 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I agree! What are we going to tell them that they don't already know but they don't want to face?
2006-11-20 08:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you should generalize. yes there are some ridiculous ppl out there but others find this site very helpful.
i had a baby out of wedlock and trust me hunny i understand fully how much a baby cost and how much love they need. just because i wasnt married doesnt mean my baby is neglected. nor does it mean that i am a slut. i took responsibility. alot of ppl do. dont generalize and make everyone with a unplanned pregnancy seem like a bunch of little girls with there legs wide open.
also not everyone has contraceptives availible. and yes its sad to see young girls who end up pregnant bc they werent able to get b/c, condems what have you but that doenst mean you should go on some long petty rant. do you really take answers that seriously?
"its real and its life" you are correct here. since you know so much about life then you should know that some ppl are stupid.
get over it.
2006-11-20 18:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by StellaLuna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! I work for an adoption agency part-time as a birth-mom mentor. When I have someone call in and it's a first time pregnancy or something, but when it's the third or fourth or fifth time, I just want to say what the ____? I'm a nice person, but with all the TOTALLY FREE CONFIDENTIAL ways out there to prevent unwanted pregnancy why do we have so many? And now to really piss some people off-90% of these are African-American or Hispanic girls and women. Poverty is not an excuse for ignorance anymore.
2006-11-20 16:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm 13 and my child is gonna come out of wedlock. I don't "sleep around" and we used contraceptive and it broke. Now me and my boyfriend are happy soon-to-be parents who don't mind raising a baby. And Wendy that did NOT need to be said. Whites can be horrs just like some blacks can be horrs. Half of them are black and hispanic and half are white. NOW THERE. And friggen stop insulting people living in poverty. A lot of the girls are coming straight out the god d a m n hood like ME. Yes,I am black and no poverty friggen has NOTHING to do with it. And no I do not live in poverty. I'm a little above middle class.
2006-11-20 16:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by 13 year old girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree to a point because there are so many types of birth control out there. And why are people who are not in fully committed relationships having unsafe sex in the first place. A baby is less dangerous to you than lets say, AIDS! Condoms are available at any health clinic in America. Use one...jeez.
2006-11-20 16:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true, but the people you are targeting in your "sermon", although stupid enough to not use contraceptives, are also too stupid to read this, and understand that you're talking about them...
not only do these individuals risk unwanted pregnancies, but they risk STDs as well....
best for all of us that they remove themselves from the gene pool by cessation of reproduction. lol
2006-11-20 16:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by Heath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones I get tired of are, "what are the signs of...". I'm like...GO GET A FRICKIN' TEST!! I hate to say they're "stupid", because we all make mistakes, but why ask the same question that everyone else has already asked a million times? They can go find the answers already out there!!
2006-11-20 16:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by julesl68 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i agree totally i mean i got pregnant at 17 and i had learn from my mistakes why would i want to murder a baby she has a life to grow up with and i would never ever think of abortion.
2006-11-20 16:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a baby "out of wedlock". We have money and he gets lots of attention. What does that have to do with contraception failure?
2006-11-20 16:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think that people come here to hear unbiased advice, and if you do not want to give it to them, do not respond to their questions. These people are naturally curious, confused, worried, and scared. And everyone makes mistakes.
2006-11-20 22:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by shawna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋