What To Do???????

Question

OK HERES THE STORY SOMEONE AT MY SCHOOL STATRED A RUMOR THAT SAID I SUCK DICK AND ILL DO ANYBODY. THE RUMOR SPREAD TO A HIGH SCHOOL THEN TO ANOTHER HIGH SCHOOL AND THEN TO THE LIBRARY. SINCE THE LIBRARY IS MY SPOT TO HANG OUT. NOW MY FRIENDS(ALL BOYS) R WALKING UP TO ME AND ASKING ME TO SUCK THEY *****. EVEN 18 YR. OLDS R ASKING ME. ONE TIME I WAS STUPID ENOUGH TO GO IN THE BACK OF A SCHOOL WITH ONE OF THEM AND NOTHING HAPPENED BUT HE TOLD EVERYBODY I HAD SEX WITH HIM AND I DIDN'T. IVE LOST ABOUT 5 FRIENDS BECAUSE OF WHAT HE DID. MY BOYFRIEND DOESNT KNOW AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO SO PEOPLE WILL STOP THINKING IMA HOE AND IM NOT. WHAT TO DO????

Answer 1

OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!THIS KIND OF THING IS DISGUSTING AND SOMETHING SIMILAR TO THIS HAPPENED TO ME WHEN I WAS IN SCHOOL AND I KNOW HOW YOU ARE FEELING..FIRST OF ALL THIS IS SEXUAL HARRASSMENT AND I WOULD ADVISE YOU TO SPEAK WITH A COUNSELOR AND TELL THEM WHAT IS GOING ON BECAUSE YOU NEED GUIDANCE IN GETTING THROUGH THIS SITUATION DO YOU KNOW HOW MEAN AND DEGRADING THIS IS TO A YOUNG PERSON..IT IS VERY TRAUMATIC AND YOU NEED HELP CAN YOU TALK TO YOUR PARENTS ABOUT THIS???? I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU DROP OUT OF SCHOOL BECAUSE OF THIS....AND FURTHERMORE DO NOT GIVE ANYONE ANY REASONS TO TALK ABOUT YOU LIKE THAT STAY WHERE PEOPLE CAN SEE YOU AT ALL TIMES WHEN YOU ARE AT SCHOOL AND THEN THEY HAVE NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT..GOOD LUCK ON THIS ONE

Answer 2

Tell whoever asks you to get the F out of your face and to stop being a pig. You also might try giving them a burn too....along the lines of "you WISH you could have this"!!!!

Best thing to do is ignore them & deny, deny, deny to your friends & boyfriend (if he ever does get involved)!!

To get people to stop thinking you're a whore is going to take some work, some time, and possibly a great gesture.

I suggest speaking with your guidance counselor about putting out some sort of broadcast message to your school that such advances are completely UNACCEPTABLE and anyone caught making them will serve detention or ISS or all out suspention for sexual harrassment.

If you don't want to go that high, I'd do my very best to get my friends on my side and to get them to help you stop the rumor by telling anyone who tells them that it's not true.

Absolute last resort and probably the most effective...stand up somewhere high during lunch or before class and make an announcement!! But you've gotta be pretty brave to do that.

If I were you, I'd do some version of all 3 suggestions. That way you give it the triple-whammy. If they still don't believe you after that, take comfort in the fact that this is High School and will all be over soon!!

Answer 3

Talk to your five friends, if they were and hopefully still well be, say to them:you`ve know me for___________(fill in your self),You know better/much better then that(depending on how long you`ve know them),Do look like the person to do something like that or would i ever do something like that.
You start of with that,Then for second part,which is about the guy,You could say:I was there,honestly nothing happened,Don't go believe whatever people say about me or anybody because if their your friend like me you can just ask me because that's what friends do, help each other.

Your 5 friends should have stuck with you and tried to help with both problems because if their true friends the would helped you from the very start.

That's coming from personnel experiences , Ive had in school is well, i went to closets friends and helped trough it. Hope my advice helps.

Answer 4

pple used to spread rumors about me like that all the time when i was in high school girl just ignore them. if they dont believe u then thats there problem. and if ur friends are ur true friends then they would not believe this crap and tell pple to keep their mouth shut. but u do need to tell ur boyfriend what is being said b/c if he hears it from someone else before u then he may end the relationship just be honest with everyone. and slap the **** out of those losers who keep asking u to do those thngs. they need to be tought how to respect women.

Answer 5

I think you need to admit all of what you just admitted to us to your boyfriend before anybody else gets to him. You need to tell everyone else that the rumor isn't true and clear your reputation. You know just like I do that if your male friends don't want to be your friend anymore, they were only hanging with you to get some and were never your friends to begin with. If you know you're not a hoe, you need to quit doing things like going behind buildings because that is not who you are.
Clear this up with your boyfriend before anybody else gets to him, clear your own reputation, and don't be out doing what everyone else expects you to do.

Answer 6

Tell your boyfriend and have him kick their a&&. Talk to each of your friends one on one and tell them that even if they don't believe you you are going to tell them the truth. The boy LIED and if they are your friends they should not be helping him to get away with it.

To the guys who come up to you in the library, say, "Oh, you mean that guy So-and-so told you that lie, too? And you're going to listen to a gay guy bragging about what didn't happen?"

Answer 7

Oh boy, this is a tough one, kid!
1. change schools
2. move
3. "find jesus"--seriously, if someone's bothering you like that, tell them that Jesus loves them and you have found Jesus (they'll think you are born-again etc). Be sincere and a little glassy eyed and pretty soon word will get around.
4. Kick them in the you know whats.
good luck, it's hard to be a kid nowadays.

Answer 8

Why would you go to the back of the school or whatever.Just ignore them and say,,"Not in your best dream".Then,,maybe you want to find a boyfriend or date alot of guys and put out to no one,,lol.

Answer 9

spread a nice rumor that he was seen having sex with a guy

Answer 10

dam u needa tell ya boy so he can put a few people esp that one guy in check...n if ya friends left u for one stupid rumor, they werent ya friends to begin with.