if you really like a girl, you'd do anything to be in a relationship with her, right?
my opinion is that if you don't try hard enough - it's not love...
2006-11-20 07:36:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
(this person is my superior)
2006-11-20 07:44:15 · update #1
Jesus! i'm not a man, i'm the girl and i wanna know about this guy's mind,.,.
2006-11-20 07:46:47 · update #2
Yes I left my family and friends and moved 2 states away to be with the woman I love.
2006-11-20 07:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by rottn30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that...then you're a ...loser. Don't do "anything" to be with her...do nothing...and let her know it ( passively ). Women love control...so don't let them have any. If you control the encounter ( even by walking away ) then she'll try to get you back "on". Wouldn't that work better?
" If you don't try hard enough, you're not in love" - Give me a break! You'll spend plenty of nights alone watching porn with that approach...I'd rather be out in the mix! Two choices..saying "no" consistently and getting laid...or saying yes all the time and dating your palm....seems like an easy choice to me.
2006-11-20 15:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by James S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking changing things in your life, career, personal beliefs?? I found out first hand that doing anything to be with the one you love isn't necessarily a good thing. Love is a constant compromise. Both should be willing to do anything for the other and if it works out right neither should have to do very much work because you just naturally meet in the middle!
2006-11-20 15:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by knite_hawk1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can only so much, before you cross that crazy guy, stocker line, you can only pursue a girl just a bit, like in fishing, you can't make the fish bit, but if you are getting nibbles, you keep your line in the water, and hopefully she'll bite, but if your pursuing a girl, and you don't get any kind of sign from her that she's into you, you need to move on, no matter how much your think you love her.
2006-11-20 15:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't one sided its two sided. What's the use of giving yourself up to someone who does not appreiciate the things you do for them. Many womens standards have changed today.
If you really like a girl but she is not intersted you should forget about her and look for someone who will appreciate what you are willing to give. you are not the one who is missing out they are. You know what you have to give to the one you love so you shouldn't be disappointed in yourself. just tell yourself that sooner or later she will come looking for you realizing what she lost.
Like some sayings go
When youv'e got something special never forget it. or
one never realizes what special things they had until they lose it.
2006-11-20 15:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend it all depends on the methods that you are trying. Please remember that if she says she's not interested in you, & you continue the pursuit, then you could be moving into stalker territory. I am afraid that the way your question is worded makes me think you may have the typical stalker attitude.
If she is saying NO, then it doesn't matter how much you love her, or try to influence her, she may just not be interested. Be prepared to accept that.
2006-11-20 15:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, If I like a girl then she has to respect me as much as I respect her. There are limitations of course, but in fact If you make someone like you, it defeats the whole purpose of having someone who likes you for you. You can't make the river currents go backwards. If I made you like me then your giving in for sympathetic reasons, therefore only liking me out of pity. If you don't try hard enough it is no loss for me because the reality is I don't have to make anyone do anything. It would be your loss for trying to "make" someone "make" you like them.
2006-11-20 15:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by skawp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An old man once said "love is in your bird;.
2006-11-20 15:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by hunter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be too pushy and look desperate, give her a little chase.
2006-11-20 15:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by A A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup
2006-11-20 15:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Brett R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋