I'm 13, Male and English. I am in year 9 but have an illnes that prevents me from being able to get into school often (it's long term, had it 2 years now). My 'Best friend' who I'm only just seing again, Well, I'm in love with her, have been for 5 years she was always special... back to the point - I hardly ever see her and we've somhow lost contact, my email's packed up and she hasn't replied to my letter (can't have got lost, I put an undelivered return adress on the back) But I'm very shy, and I want to tell her to the face, But I can't lose her! I'll practiacally die she's all that keeps me going. It doesn't really help that i'm... not the bestlooking boy in the world and she's always hanging around with like, 4 other giggly girls. How do I tell her? Somhow she's always busy when I invite her round but she seems like, erm enthusiastic at school like she really wants to see me. ...long question sorry. please awnser and email me at robert.s.tau@hotmail.co.uk (my yahoo mail wont work)
2006-11-20 07:33:26 · 3 answers · asked by HighElfTau 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hardly anonymous if you give your email address.
Why not forward it to the girl concerned?
2006-11-20 07:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIRTEEN!
You are not in love. You are a child. You are maybe in infatuation or lust, but romantic love takes being a grown-up. It is hard work, and not for kids.
"Falling in love" is for romantic fools and teenagers, UNLESS you are willing to hold her head while she pukes on you, or give him a kidney, or travel to Spain to see him for 1/2 an hour, bail her out of jail or give her your credit cards for safe keeping.
Would you buy a house for her? Yes Could you? No.
Would you give her a baby? Yes? Should you at 13? No!
Would she let you go to college while she worked for 5 years? Yes? Could she? No?
Love is wonderful, and it is also for patient, mature, unselfish, and trustworthy people. Teenagers are usually none of these. YET!
Give yourself a break. Enjoy being a kid!
Love your friend, and tell her you want to have a word with her privately. Tell her you are shy but want her to know that you would like to hang out with her. Do not tell her you are nuts in love with her. You will scare her, and she might laugh at you. That would be awful
If she likes you, looks don't matter. If she doesn't, they do.
Good luck
2006-11-20 07:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have the same people has me i am a girl
and this boy last year he was one of my best friend but know that we are at different classes and only after-school i only i could talk to me and know that i don't see I'm i always thing about him and the good days we have together
so you have to tell her that you want to go out with her and that she was one of your best friend for years
and i know that wene she has friends you cant talk to her every time you one and i think that's the right think to do cause another boy could take her just do the right think
OK good luck and don't forget dont be shy and dont ask her like can you come with me for a sec and then you said i forgot what i was was going to ask you so just tell her
a hint:i think you are going to get nervius
2006-11-20 08:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋