Okay, when I was with my ex, he was literally turned on my me almost all the time, and when I saw him again recently it was the same way... But with my current boyfriend it is only on the rare occasion that I do... Even tho I do what he tells me does it for him, he just doesnt sometimes..... It makes me feel unnattractive to him!! Why is this? I know I am pretty!
2006-11-20 07:29:19 · 11 answers · asked by Fussy Duckling 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I have the same problem with my ex. He's still turned on by me but knows I'm engaged to someone else but he still looks at me like the day we met. Sometimes my fiance will not come on to me then there are times he will when hes in a playful mood. i guess men have there moods like women. If another man comes around me hes all over me ready to fight off prey! I'm a beautiful redhead built and he's protective of me but never jealous. Anyway, I don't think it has to do with you being unattractive. Try asking him why this is happening. Be flirtatious around him to arouse him to be interested. Sometimes I need to do this to get my fiances attention, not that I really need too but men sometimes have there minds else where and don't pay attention to us women so we have to be persuasive sexually.
2006-11-20 07:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being attracted to variety (i.e. to different types of women) is how a species ensures its survival. The more genetic diversity there is, the healthier the offspring and the greater the chances of genetic survival. So from an evolutionary standpoint, it makes more sense for a man to maybe like blonds, but also be attracted to redheads, and so on. I realize that wasn't exactly your question, but the same principle applies. If we're going to go down the route of only finding a certain type of woman attractive, then all men should only prefer this one, perfect, strikingly beautiful blond woman. It doesn't work that way. Nature allows us to be attracted to multiple partners with varying traits. Maybe the reason individual men have individual preferences (e.g. one man might not like blonds but only like brunettes, another might only like blonds and not brunettes, etc.) is because that enables him to be attracted to whatever trait his particular gene pool needs to acquire the most. For example, you often find that short men are attracted to tall women. Tall men usually don't care about a woman's height, and instead look for other traits. I'm sure there's no evidence to support this theory, but it's an interesting possibility.
2016-05-22 00:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are different. Some men have different ways of expressing their love etc. Im really sorry about this but ask him if you turn him on or not. Ask him what will turn him on and see what happens. Good luck!
2006-11-20 08:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man do girls worry way too much lol. Trust me girl, if you wernt making him happy, he might not come out and tell you, but he would definalty ask you to do some new stuff that would do it for him. if he is not doing that then you are making him happy. trust me. like women, sometimes guys just wanna hang out too even though we never admit it.
2006-11-20 07:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not you. maybe the 'magic' has gone out of Ur relationship for him. you should make him try different things, go to different places. maybe he just has a low sex drive. have you tried talking to him about it and how its making you feel? sooner or later it's gonna be the end of any intimacy with you guys
2006-11-20 08:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by xiv6632 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My you're conceited. Has it ever occured to you that he doesn't think that your pretty. Perhaps you have some other quality that attracts him as a person if not a Lover.
Whatever it is, it certainly isn't your modesty. thats for sure.
2006-11-20 07:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Guys have different needs and different ways of expressing themselves
2006-11-20 07:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it doesn't mean you are not attractive to him he just might be more into making sure you are satisfied before he does
2006-11-20 07:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by jawtar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
il pick a zit and ponder this one keep checking back . i hope the zit i chose isnt on my back
2006-11-20 07:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by spyro_gyro1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chemestry, Fermones, Timing, etc.. etc.. etc.
-HtJ
2006-11-20 07:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by hesterthehester 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋