Alright....I found out one of my friends is gay at the beginning of the year. I think I am bisexual (I havent told anyone) because Ive always found myself attracted to men, (and not in that normal adolescent way everyone talks about) but ever since I found out he was gay (through another of my close friends...she wasnt supposed to tell anyone) Ive become very attracted to him, and I think I like him. Ever since this friend found out that I knew he was gay he's been trying to become better friends with me and always tries to stand closer to me when we're anywhere together. He elso seems to like fooling around with me (I poke him, he'll throw something at me, randomly hit me, stuff like that) and he smiles/laughs whenever a look at him for a elongated time. I really wanna tell him Im bisexual/like him, do you think thats a good idea?/do you think he is flirting with me?
2006-11-20 07:29:12 · 12 answers · asked by wildcolt@sbcglobal.net 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i agree with post 1.
you two are already flirting... so maybe hold his gaze a bit longer than usual and maybe wink at him in a sexy way.
if he wasnt sure b4 that, he will be in a big hurry!
good luck from this lil' lesbian on the coast :)
2006-11-20 07:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Charmed 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You may find that your friend is just being friendly? I know several gay guys, all of which flirt with other guys, both gay and straight, and with girls too! It can range from a whole heap of things! You shouldn't over analyse something, or be paranoid about something that might not even be there!! If you suspect there is some sort of attraction or uncomfortable situation, quietly and discretely (there's no need to go screaming it to everyone) inform him that you don't feel comfortable, and if he could please stop! A little awkward will save you a tonne of stress and paranoia about you thinking someone wants to throw you onto their bed! :/ Hope this helped!
2016-05-22 00:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is flirting. I could be wrong however but you will never know unless you move forward with this situation. Tell him how you feel and what your sexual orientation is. What's the worse that can happend? If he gives you a wierd look, just tell him you are kidding! Well you shouldn't really tell him that because you should be proud of what you are. If he is any kind of friend then he would respect you in that factor. Goodluck to you!
2006-11-20 07:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My suggestion here is simple. You like the guy and you find yourself attracted to him physically and emotionally. Friendships often evolve into GREAT relationships. If you think you are ready I say next time you see him and he is acting all fun and foolish, go up to him and simply ask him if he would like a date? He'll probably be a little shocked, but hopefully he'll say yes. GOR FOR IT!
2006-11-20 08:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good dude. Seems like you guys are definatelly flirting with each other. I don't think you need to tell him though, some time when you are hanging out, that "stare" will turn into a kiss, and the rest will just naturally fall into place.
2006-11-20 07:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Wanderer 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
OMG I can relate same thing happened. First he came out and Then I figured the hell with it and I told him since then we have been even more BFF's and we do, do alot of FLITING sooo much funn....So if I waz U I would do it you don't want another man to snatch him up.
2006-11-20 16:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww, he really likes you! You should go out as friends, spend a lot of time with him. Since you "think" your bi, you should really explore. Have fun! But be very nice! Gay males are very sensitive! Like I am
2006-11-20 07:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Danys M 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes it sounds like he is flirting, and yes follow through and tell him. If not, you'll be kicking yourself for it later. Enjoy him and enjoy your sexuality! Good luck! ;-)
2006-11-21 03:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep that's flirting signs. He likes you, go for it! Tell him whatever you want because chances is that he might already know.
2006-11-20 07:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by FELICIA H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it a shot and test the waters. next time your with him and grabas ssing around, cop a feel and try getting him hard and then move in and test it out.
2006-11-20 07:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by jackwithme6969 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋