Your 15 year old male
your mother died when you were 10
you have ginger hair
your 258 lbs
you wear glasses
you are capricorn
you haven't got good social skills
you fall in love really easilly
you irish father is backward
And the worst thing is that your not one of those people who likes who you are, you are one of those people who would love to be different to the way you are
2006-11-20 07:11:35 · 18 answers · asked by May the force be with you. 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Okay , can you add me on your email ? , i dont care for points here as much as i care for ppl , Send me an email you will find it in the profile or add it in details
P.S : no one will really care , ppl leave there emotions before they come online
2006-11-20 07:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi!
Not unlucky!
it's fine to be 15, and fine to be male
I'm sorry about your mother.. It's rough to do
without your mother at any age
Ginger hair! Beautiful! Make sure the barber
does not cut it too short ... show off the color!
258 is a lot .. but you aren't finished growing
yet .. a couple of years will do great things
for you ... and you can always lose a little
at at time (don't suffer over it ... still have
Pepsi's. etc.) How tall are you? You'll grow.
You'll be surpised to see how much that alone
will change your appearance
If you don't like your glasses, get a new pair.
Capricorns are nice, especially Capricorn men..
they are supportive, good, and kind...
Well, there are worse things ... you can learn social manners as time goes on ... just remem-
ber to say "Hello" and "Good-bye" and be
friendly in between those two!
Oh, FALL in love .. why NOT??? Aren't you
LUCKY. Think of all those nasty, tight,
unromantic people who wouldn't pay anyone
the compliment ....do you see? People are
beautiful, aren't they ... but, not everyone sees
them that way ...
That's OK about your father ... someone has to
be backward .........er ..... are you sure that is
the most important thing about him? He might
just be an angel, patient, sweet and kind... and
it just doesn't show
My grandmother said that a friend is the rarest
thing in the world ....next to common sense .. and
don't think that a lot of us would not love to be liked for who we are .... or to be different (from) the way we are ... ... you just need to be patient..
as long as you like yourself for who you are, at
least you have one friend ... . Please be at peace with yourself... a lot of us don't have friends..we just make it through the day, 24-7, because we
have found ways to leap from moment to moment
without falling over into loneliness ... even some-times one's very own spouse does not close the gap
You wrote us a very nice letter and let us in on
your thoughts in such an honest, loving way..
it was so kind of you to do so! Thank you
so much.
The top of the mornin' to you!
LPM
2006-11-20 15:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
We are what we decide to be. If this person is not happy with the way he/she looks then do something about it.
A lot of people blame their lack of enthusiasm to "bad luck". He can not do anything about when he was born, the fact that his mom passed away or that his father is Irish. I'd say, learn to choose your battles. Weight? You can exercise and lose it, the color of your hair? Dye it, no social skills? learn some, glasses? they are chic nowadays, learn to live with them or get cool ones, fall in love easily? learn from the mistakes and do not trip on the same rock...there is someone for everyone out there...while you are wasting your time falling in love with the wrong one, the right one can be passing you by...
Now, worrying about the people that do not like you does now allow you to meet the ones that really will. Cut your losses and move on...life is so much better...we can not afford to worry about things that are beyond our means. We have no control over what other people do, feel or say...but we do have control over our own actions and responses. To those I say: "You missed out on a great kid...". Get control of your life and your destiny and learn how to live better, for yourself...
2006-11-20 15:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~Sunny~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about your mom. My husband has red hair and thats ok with me. Redheads are nice guys. You are too hard on yourself. Start looking at some of your good qualities, you have them. You said you fall in love easily, so that tells me that you have a soft heart. Just because you dad is backward doesn't mean you have to be. Take a chance and make one good friend. People love to talk about themselves so ask people about themselves. Be brave reach out and grab life and live. Remember too, that God loves you and has a plan for your life, so go seek it out
2006-11-21 18:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by angel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hunny you can change all of that! You create your destiny, if you choose to. You can do something about your weight, u can become more friendly, you hair can be dyed and cut up good, if you fall in love easily, you can make the ones you love feel the same i'm sure your a great person! You father you can't do anything about him for sure and i'm sorry about your mom sweetie.Remember god never gives us things that we can't handle! So do you best with what you have and move forward your too young to be feeling depressed. :)
2006-11-20 15:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by FELICIA H 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is genetics and environment, so change your environment and go on a diet and exercises program, use the Internet to look up etiquette that is proper for different social activities and reserve your romantic intentions untill your able to love yourself. Best of luck.
2006-11-20 15:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Faerie loue 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
15 sucks no matter what.
Sorry about your mom- you should get grief counseling.
Read hair can be hot. i knew this guy who was so hot and had ginger hair in this little faux-hawk. it drove me nuts.
If you are obese you need to get help. Its fine to be fat-whatever. fat can be hot. but obese is unhealthy- hard on your body, can cuase diabetes, etc.
glasses are hot! hello! just get a hot emo style. they make you look smart.
hey- i'm capricorn! we rock.
social skills, smocial skills.
falling in love- you are 15 dude. it'll pass.
be proud of your irish heritage! besides, everyone has a backwards redneck in the family. in my family- like, 20.
2006-11-20 18:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by Olive 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't stereotype yourself, you may feel like you are 100% alone in the world but you're not, someday people are going to meet the real you and like the real you. Don't try change the you in the hope to get people to like you, because it won't be you you're liking. You have some serious self-esteem issues, you just need to build up your confidence and the world will come to you
2006-11-20 15:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Look in the mirror .. ecce homme .. you are perfect .. How? you are the sum total of all your experiences and thoughts, no-one else has them, no-one else can experience them .. you are living proof that nature ignores looks and goes for strength and survivability .. at 15 you have a life ahead .. ignore your current insignificant (but to you important) appearance, it is your attitude that makes you. As Marcus Aurelius said "Our life is what our thoughts make it"
2006-11-20 15:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by The old man 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would say you are very lucky. You woke up on the top side of the grass and not 6 ft. under it. Just play the cards that are in your hand.
2006-11-20 15:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by fr2fish 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋