I have been out on dates before and have upset women when they found out I had a condom in my possession. "I have heard things such as, "Oh you think your getting laid tonite," or "What do you think I am?" The few moments I didn't have one, I have had women pump the breaks on sex for the evening and sweat me for not having one.
Since I was about 14 I have carried a condom, just in case and not because I was expecting anything.
Ladies, why are we men damned if we do and damned if we don't about condoms? Why does it have to be a double edge sword?
2006-11-20
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I would rather have the man be prepared than I who has to be prepared. A womens mind is a complicated thing. I on the other hand would rather the man be safe then me having to think about it.
2006-11-20 07:12:21
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answered by Anonymous
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some women are messed up in the head about something so stupid. men can't take birth control at home and head out so girls just need to realize that men have to carry thier's with them. When a girl flips on you just walk away and find another date. because it is better to have the protection when needed then not. Not all girls are like that just some. So maybe you not need to show them you have one or tell them you have one until you know where the night is leading... and how would they know if you kept it in your wallet?
2006-11-20 07:07:24
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answered by Anonymous
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It's not a double-edged sword. The woman who reacts adversely to a condom is not the same woman who expects you to have one. As a matter of fact, every woman you date is a different person. You cannot expect every single woman to have the same perspective. This means that you have to treat every single woman you date as an individual and be interested enough to care who she is. I can assure you, that your problem will disappear.
2006-11-20 07:06:12
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answered by limendoz 5
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2016-12-28 06:47:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Just how do they find out you have one in your possession. If you are telling them you have one, they of course they become offended, you don't need to advertise, if something happens and you need one, great the ladies will be happy you are prepared, however just coming out with it, makes us feel like you are out for one thing. Be discreet.
2006-11-20 07:02:46
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answered by Premo Mom 5
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I don't think thats a bad thing when a guy has a condom it just means that they are prepard for anything that can go down.
2006-11-20 08:48:43
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answered by justme 1
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I wish I could tell you that answer. But I happen to think its a great thing to do. ALWAYS be prepared!!!! You never know what will happen.
2006-11-20 07:05:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Why is it you want her to sleep with you but then you'll probably think of her as easy if she does ?? That's life and that's our double edge sword. Live with it.
2006-11-20 07:05:18
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answered by JustMe 6
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You aren't telling the truth about this.
What you don't know is that women are attracted to guys that are experienced in seduction. A woman is not offended by a guy who expects they are going to be having sex. They assume that he thinks that because he has good reason to think that.
It's the man that thinks he has to hide his intentions and desires that women are offended by.
2006-11-20 07:01:26
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answered by Anonymous
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I'd continue to carry them. You don't have to let them know you have it, unless of course it's needed.
2006-11-20 07:02:35
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answered by sassybree1979 5
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