Ok so I have a friend that we grew up together. She has this other friend that I do not know. I have never met her only know her through my friend. So we all have myspace accounts and her friend will go to people that I personally know and post things after I do like mean things about me. She has been doing this since April 2006. My friend kept telling me she is like that doesn't mean any harm...lalalalala to just ignore it that she will get bored quick and stop. She hasn't stopped. So I have her blocked and she keeps making fake profiles to leave me messages or leaves them on other peoples profiles. She says mean things and we don't even know each other personally. I got mad cause she posted something on my friends page and told her if she was any kind of friend she would erase that stuff she writes and she got mad at me and told me I was being immature and won't talk to me now? Was I wrong for asking her to delete her friends messages? They were really mean?
2006-11-20 06:41:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no, you were not wrong. that stuff is hurtful and a real friend would've gotten that other "friend" in check. it's not cool to hate on people, especially if it's one of your friends. I would just shrugg it off and try to move on. Make your profile private and change your settings so that only people who know your real name can add you (with my little sister we put a secret name, so only her friends she tells about it can add her) this girl sounds really lame and immature. Don't push your friend to talk to you.. if she's a real friend.. she'll realize her mistake. If she never comes around, then that is just sad, but you'll just have to make a new friend. I hope all turns out well!
2006-11-20 06:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by .:*giggles*:. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any friend that allows someone else to write or post mean full things is not a friend. You did a good thing by blocking her other friend. You need to block her also. Friends like that you don't need enemies. They are like vampires they will turn on sooner or later. There is probably a case of jealousy going with the other or envy. I don't know you personally but you have a bad way of choosing for friends.
2006-11-20 06:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by naomijoan0615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine how much better your life would be if you deleted your myspace page and stopped looking at other people's pages! This myspace thing is such a drain on time, energy, emotions - and does nothing but create drama. Consider the idea of ignoring myspace completely and doing other, more positive things.
2006-11-20 06:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they are both really immature. And that your friend is not really your friend. You need to block both of them and stop speaking to your other supposed "friend." Real friends won't treat you that way. And some people are just too immature to have more then one friend at a time. Cut your losses, you are better off not having such a loser for a friend.
2006-11-20 06:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Chula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong. I would of done the same thing. You friend met you first and is letting this new friend treat you like dirt. If she doesnt apologize and tell you that her friend has agreed to treat you right she wasnt a true friend to begin with. I dont want to sound harsh but i am going through something like that too and that was one of my answers and i really respected it.
2006-11-20 06:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kendall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well personally down here in the south we would cuss the little whore out... but you dont need to do that... but just ingnore the girl.. she dont even know you and personally she has no right to be talkin about you.. now i could understand if yall like acctually met and talked....and then she talked ****... but just ignore her and i dont think that you were wrong but just tell that little girl that you dont appreciate what she is doing. means she doesnt know you at all and ask her to please stop and if not then cuss the little girl out... or just delete your profile and make a new one!!!!!
2006-11-20 06:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by URKA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG - she is a child.
Either ignore her childish games & move on, or play on her level & do the same thing to her - why not make it a boys account to say stupid things to her?
She needs a hobby or a boyfriend.
2006-11-20 06:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by CoronaGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they're both immature and I don't think you should lose any sleep over that friendship. Anyone who lets someone put you down repeatedly for no reason, is no friend.
2006-11-20 06:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by bscottsbabygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be suspicious of that "friend" of yours who seems to be sticking up for this bee-yatch. since you haven't seen the bee-yatch, i'm thinking that maybe she's made up and your friend is doing this to you cuz she is either jealous of you or just plain mean. i had a "friend" like that, that i knew forever and she was a total backstabber. if i were you, i would tell your friend that she needs to drop this bee-yatch or drop you. see where her true friendship lies. and good luck. you seriously don't need to put up with this childish bull.
2006-11-20 06:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and take your page down for a while until time passes or things blow over. Then put your page back up.
2006-11-20 06:42:58 · answer #10 · answered by visitor42353 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋