well my boyfriend (we live together) has a bunch of porn in his dresser drawer.i have not talked about it with him but it really bothers me. it makes me feel like im not good enough.i guess, im average looking. i wiegh 118 and im 5'2 but it still makes me fel bad because those girls in the movies and magazines are way prettier than me and skinnier. dont say watch it with him because i think its stupid and not even a real job. if you need ages he's 22 and im 17. am i wrong to feel this way?
girls : how would you feel?
guys: what would you do if your girlfriend told you it bothered her.?
2006-11-20 06:37:40 · 12 answers · asked by manatee_love 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
my gf likes porn
arent you kinda young to be living with a 22 yr old?
2006-11-20 06:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
First of all, he's young and horny. I'd probably be more worried if he didn't have some porn.
Don't take it personally. almost every guy I've ever known has watched and/or owned porn at some point. Guys are just so physically activated that that is why they like porn.
It doesn't mean that he likes you any less or likes their bodies any more. They are just fantasies. Besides, are you sure he still watches them now?
2006-11-20 14:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by teel2624 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry so much about the porn; it's pretty common.
Does his porn interest affect your sex life; does he make unreasonable demands or does he say or do anything to make you feel inadequate or unattractive? That would be a different story.
You really should talk to him, tell him how you feel, listen to what he has to say about it. If you don't feel like you can talk to him, that's a bigger problem than a drawerful of porn.
2006-11-20 14:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u are not wrong to feel this way.....this is something i dont know how to answer the right way the best thing i can say to do is talk to him about it.....i think telling him would strenghten your realtionship.. so quit being a coward and do it....that way you wont have any secrets with him........tell him that it does hurt you and i know u dont like to share ur feelings but do it this one time see what happens...
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2006-11-20 15:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by sweet18apparatus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would jsut sit down and talk to him but i think it is normal for guys to watch taht dating or not and married or not actully most married men have potn i dont think it is anything to worry about hun
2006-11-20 14:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by ... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All guys watch porn....it is a fantasy for them. It doesn't mean your sex life is bad....it is a supplement for him is all. Just ignore it. Really. There are bigger things to worry about.
2006-11-20 14:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't bother me a bit. If he watches it, I normally watch it with him.
2006-11-20 15:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to perform like they do in the movies. best advice...find a BF that is younger
2006-11-20 14:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by Hando C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Porn rocks, you'll change your mind as you get older.
2006-11-20 14:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sue F 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
any guy that tells you he doesn't like porn is lying.
sorry. you're young, but you're gonna have to get used to it,
it's got nothing to do with you either. its just something that turns us on.
2006-11-20 14:40:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋