I am in my second relationship with a beautiful woman, and the rewards are amazing I feel that I have met my soulmate, I am happy, why is it so difficuilt for people to understand same sex relationships
2006-11-20 06:35:32 · 14 answers · asked by leo 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Because its not natural, for the Femal to be attracted by the same sex. It can be quite disturing to see them making out in public...its just un-natural.
2006-11-20 06:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋
When you say, "It can't be wrong," you bring up the question of morality. Morality and moral decisions are based on some system of belief. Many base their decisions of what is right and what is wrong on the teachings of the Bible, which clearly states that all sexual encounters outside the boundaries of a husband/wife relationship are contrary to God's character, nature, and design for us, and called "sin" by God.
You've determined that it can't be wrong based on how it makes you feel, but that standard is certainly questionable if applied to all people and all situations.
I'll admit that I find it difficult to understand the attraction some feel for the same sex, just as I find it difficult to understand the attraction that some feel for stealing or pornography, but I have my own struggles, and because I have experienced the Grace of God in my own areas of sin, I do my best to extend that grace to everyone as much as I'm able. That means treating all people with love, kindness, patience, gentleness, compassion, and so on, but it does not mean agreeing that same-sex relationships (or other behaviors that God calls "sin") are valid or rational choices.
2006-11-20 14:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's natural. Enjoy. Welcome to the ranks of bisexuality. I'd send you your toaster, but we're temporarily out.
With regards to those who say it's a sin because of Leviticus, most of these are the same people that ignore the fact that Leviticus also considers eating catfish and oysters to be a mortal sin and that divorcing someone and marrying another is technically adultery (the bible doesn't make allowances for divorce), which is also punishable by death.
Be happy. Ignore the ignorance. It's useless to argue with them and it only serves to make them more vocal.
2006-11-20 16:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The experience that an individual receives with they are intimate with the same sex is outstanding. It feels very natural to me. Love to hear from you personally.
2006-11-20 14:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by beachguy_41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong. People can have their own free will of having sex relationships that are the same.
2006-11-20 14:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to some people same sex relationships is abnormal. my mom dosen't accept the fact that i am a lesbian, but i don't care. just go on with your life, and ignore ignorance.
2006-11-20 14:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignorance and misinformation. I hope that you are happy! Maybe some of those other people cannot handle the fact that you have found the one and they have not. Take it with a grain of salt and live as you please! Best wishes!!
2006-11-20 14:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by pppersephone06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being bisexual is morally wrong. However, no one should judge you for it unless they too are completely free of sin. Same as if it were adultery, stealing, or any other sin.
If you are worried about it, then your conscience is trying to tell you something. Talk to God and he will help you.
2006-11-20 14:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by dudewheresmydatsun 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Perhaps they're afraid,they've never experienced it and its totally unknown to them so they knock it before they've tried it. Most anger/hate originates from some sort of fear.
2006-11-20 14:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bridgeridoo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It natural don't worry about others
2006-11-20 14:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋