ive been seeing this guy casually. we only meet up if we are out in town on the same nite. we live in different towns. hes texts me when hes out and i do the same. we only meet up by chance which can sometimes be weeks.we are not dating. he used to text me when i was in my previous relationship too.
i have only kissed this guy recently, despite him wanting to take things a little further. he always compliments me, buys me drinks and wants to be around me when we are together.i catch him looking at me too.
he asked if i was enjoying the single life and i said yes.
i was in his town this weekend so i text him to see if he was out. he wasnt. we started to flirt with eachother thro our text messages. he told me to let him know in advance when i was coming to his town next time.
i told him that i fancy him and asked him when he was going to ask me out on a date?he said he thinks hes around next saturday.thats how it was left.
does he really like me?
2006-11-20 06:19:06 · 9 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he does know about my past 6 year relationship with my ex fiance.he knew my ex but they were not friends.my ex has since moved away.ive been single now for 8 months.
2006-11-20 06:20:26 · update #1
look, there's no complication here; nature is taking it's rightful course.
any questions you have, the answer is 'you're about to find out.' It's not up to us strangers to opinionate on the situation unless we know him.
It seems obvious that you're likable and that he likes you but he's intensions can't be obvious without hindsight so you'll just have to trust your judgement and your heart, all that's left for us to do is wish you all the best :-)
good luck!!
2006-11-20 06:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been keeping you as someone he doesn't have to make plans in advance with. He probably likes you, but maybe not enough to plan an actual date with - a lot of guys are like this.
If he said he thinks he's around next Saturday, knows you want to go out with him and he doesn't do anything about it. Do NOT respond to his texts again when you're out and he's out unless you come to terms with the fact that he's not ever going to ask you out on a 'real' date. He will keep you as a girl that he can see whenever he wants, not someone special enough to plan for and I think you deserve better than that!!
2006-11-20 06:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh...YES! This guy is either a good one, or one hell of a registered sex offender.
Let's see, I'm seeing generosity, some lust, interest, and some empathy towards your feelings. As well the willingness to adjust his plans to be with you.
Now, as will all dates, I advise you bring protection. For guys, that means a condom. For girls, that's a can of mace.
I think you should take a chance with him, but keep it public for awhile. If you're lucky, he's the genuine article, and not some sexual conquistador
Best wishes.
2006-11-20 06:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Odindmar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short answer - just ask him out on a proper date. Ask him to do something durni the day like a shopping trip - if he's not that interested he wont want to go on one !
2006-11-20 06:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by fatboyslick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's not particularly serious and mainly wants a physical relationship or non-exclusive relationship to me.
2006-11-20 06:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Eden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could...
or he is keeping you to the side for a reason.
2006-11-20 06:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by cade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just pass his time wid u when he is bord.....
2006-11-20 06:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
***** springs to mind
2006-11-20 06:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry to long to read
2006-11-20 06:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋