Serious Answer only Please! am 33, married with 3 kids. My husband and i seem to have the worst luck. I have many finacial problems right now trust me! I need a car and Need help so bad. Trust me life doesn't alwys seem fair. I have so much love for my kids and for my family, that it hurts being so far in debt. My husbands hours cut down so much, and we keep Robbing Peter to pay Paul. we even recently got trapped in cash advance places to try to help. I am telling you sometime i wish that someone would donate a helping hand my way. Do you ever feel like those who don't try get all the extra help through life and those who never quit get a big kick in the face? right now as bad as this sound, my husband and I have to vehicles( both old vans) I swear to you the white one my husband is driving hasd no revers, it has to roll out of the driveway, doesn't go past 2nd gear. the other no forward. we got a pay advance for a $600.car. Every bill is behind. I swear we Try everything HELP!
2006-11-20 05:54:30 · 7 answers · asked by Ruthie38 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'll say a prayer for you. Bless you, your spouse and your kids. Thankfully you are all alive and together. You won't be given more than you can't handle. There is a light at the end of this tunnel of a struggle, sometimes some of us have such crappy years, it's not even funny. A woman I know lost 5 of her family members within a 6 month period and she struggled to get out of bed each morning. I can remember a time when I desperately wished I knew Bill Gates so I could borrow $600.00 for rent and food. You will get through this. You're still in the small percentage of rich people on this earth.
2006-11-20 06:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"rich" people are "rich" for a reason. You have to make good choices in life and nothing is ever given to any of us. I make very good money now and have a nice life style but that is because I made sacrifices when I was younger. Maybe yo should examine the choices you are making. Example would be taking a pay advance to get a $600 car. That was a bad decision no matter how you look at it. Buy a used $10 bicycle. At some point you are going to have to bite the bullet and make some hard choices and change you life style or you will never be any better off. A few are born with silver spoons but most of us have to put in some hard work for it.
2006-11-20 06:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the question should be how hasn't. i am so sorry to hear about you situation. yes i been there and feel the same way i want to cry and scream and take off running when i relies how bad my situation was,but i must tell you don't matter how bad it is it always get back to good. am a living prof of that,.i wish i can help you. but even do am not in that situation any more am still not good enough like i wish i was so i can just tell you the i will give you a car.something the you can do is going to you church and just be as honest as you been here. tell them th you have a problem ( actually a lot of them) and tell them the you need help. they will help you.ones again i really sorry for you. GOD BLESS YOU and god luck
2006-11-20 06:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone tries to do there best and have the best for their family. I know what you are going through. I have been there and sometimes it seems like the world is just crashing down. I would suggest you never use cash in advance again. Also look into filing Bankruptcy . Then look to your social services for food stamps and any financial help they my provide. Poor is Poor. Don't let your pride stand in the way of your next meal. I know I just would not ask for help from anyone and looking back I wished I did. Good Luck.
2006-11-20 06:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by freesample1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear your story. but I am glad that you braught it up. It shows the fake life style in many western world, specially USA. people are offered standard of living they can't afford. Plastic money loading people with debts and government busy with security not healthcare. it is also drawback of corporate economy where average people are the sufferer.
Anyway, those are reality but for you its life and death. I would recommend try to reach out to charities, local social care organizations to solve short term financial problems. Then try for stable earning source. You are right, if you are digged down to bottom, you need some generous heart to help you out. This can be person or organization.
Good luck. I feel for you but don't have anything to help you other than prayers for you.
2006-11-20 06:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by observer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long if ur healthy & have no addictions, that's all that counts, that's what I keep saying, Oh ya I'm not healthy & I owe bill too, no addction & my roof leaks.
2006-11-20 06:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear, but how can I help you? I would like to help.
2006-11-20 05:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋