My best friend likes a guy that flirts with other girls just as much as he does her and then says he likes her and not them. He also does a few bad things such as dip and other nasty things. I think they would make a cute couple its just i think the other guy she likes is who she is destined to be with. So should i just stay out of it or should i try to convince her hes not just the right one? HELP!
2006-11-20 05:47:25 · 12 answers · asked by <3Just So You Know<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Alot depends on their ages in my opinion. But I recommend that you let your friend follow her heart. This is not the easiest thing to do but if you interfere; it could cost you your friendship. I know this from personal experience. If the guy you think is "the one" then it will happen in God's Time.
2006-11-20 06:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way, I think you should tell your friend a little about how you feel. Just let her know that you're not trying to sound offensive. Give her good points along with the bad, and that probably will give her something to think about. Dont try to get into their relationship business. She may get the wrong idea. Let her learn 4 herself. And u will have done your part by telling her how you felt, and leave it alone.
2006-11-20 05:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by S4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very touchy subject. Whatever you do, don't confront your friend in an agressive way, try to let her know that you think her and the other guy would be a better fit. Try not to say anything negative about the guy she is with, because you dont want to push her away from you or make her mad. Make sure you let her know that you care about her happiness.
2006-11-20 05:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by no spam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definatly stay out of it. Guys will come and go, but you will always have your friends. The role of a friend is to be there when they are needed, not to judge thier friends on their choice of partner, good or bad. I don't particularly like my 3 best friends partners, but I tolerate them for the sake of keeping those friends. Your friend is walking her own path in life and nothing you say or do is going to change that. All it will do is cause her to resent you. She will have to, as we all do, make her own mistakes in life. That is how we learn. Stay out of it, and you will have your friend for alot longer than that guy will be around!
2006-11-20 07:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kinda give her the slip first but don't straight out tell her what u think. If that doesn't work try to have another friend talk to her and keep it confidential.
2006-11-20 06:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by EMMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, and if she gets hurt don't say I told you so, be her friend and help her threw it at that point. She is going to do what she wants to do and unless she asks for your opinion, support her in her decisions.
2006-11-20 05:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by strtat2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily no longer, I hug all my guy friends. only with the aid of fact I hug them doesnt propose i prefer to have sexual intercourse with them. Lol. they're only my friends. oftentimes when I pass away a social gathering, I hug my guy friends.
2016-10-04 04:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it. it will cause a huge fight and she might end up resenting you for a very long time. if she wants to make a mistake there is nothing u can do to correct it. she will have to learn it on her own
2006-11-20 05:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that your not flirting with him to?......I think that you like him and is jealous because of their relationship maybe you should stay out of it.
2006-11-20 06:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's ur friend and ur there to help her, tell how u feel about him or talk to him and tell him to slow his roll with other females.
2006-11-20 05:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Leomi M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋