why do men not treat women the way they deserve the way they want to be treated. not to treat them like a piece of meat or a toy that can be turned on whenever they want them to women shouldnt have to do that they should be treated with more respect and should be loved in a respective way not just judged and viewed as a "thing" but a person men judge to much by what women look like they dont take time to listen and speak to them and discover that inside every women is someone that just wants to burst out and be herself and not worry about what people think and what they say or how they judge her because of "men" .
2006-11-20 04:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And since you put all men into this catagory, Do women always treat you they way you want to be treated? or how come anybody doesn't treat everybody the way they want to be treated. People are people and will treat people the way people do. And since you think Women are the only human beings in your statement, At least answer this one. "Why do you treat men as you do?"
2006-11-20 05:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Highbeam 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to popular belief, not all men are like this, and generalisations such as this are stupid and insulting. Most men I know are respectful and have treated me well. I think it depends on the woman - it's not nice to say, but some women get the men they deserve. Of course, there are guys who cheat on their partners, and treat them badly, but not all women are innocent - some of them have affairs also, and don't look after their children as well as they should. Don't lose heart - if you respect yourself, and think more of yourself, you won't go with these loser guys. It's a generalisation that men only go for women with looks, just look at so many men who marry plain women, and love them - it's just not true - most people in the end, want to be with somebody they can relate to, laugh with, and have as a best friend, looks are only a five minute wonder after all said and done. Good luck!
2006-11-20 13:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lucia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are just pigs. However its the woman's fault if she lets their man treat them that way. I think it was the Maury show that had an episode where men claimed that they are in control and that the their woman will listen and "obey" them or they will hurt them. Well what kind of woman would want to be with someone like that? My a s s would be out the door and headed right down to the police department to file a complaint for abuse!
2006-11-20 12:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Fantasy686 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good question. All the while I was married I felt like nothing more than a maid. I had a very hard and sad life of poverty with him and he never tried to change anything. ANd when I worked I had to put up with all kinds of insults and had my $ stolen. Then when I finally left, to his family I was the bad guy. Only one, my sister in law, spoke up for me. She is the only one I will speak to, to this day. But lesbians don't treat their women much better, trust me. I do know of a few long term relationships, but more than end badley after a short time.
2006-11-20 14:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your plea was not so one sided you would realise that it should apply equally to both sexes. I do not hold out much hope for your future happiness unless you can see things a little more clearly and become better adjusted.
I think that you will find men very quickly recognise a woman with your thoughts and cannot get away quick enough!!!
If you want to attract a man then stop repelling them!
2006-11-20 13:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do women allow it?
We are all responsible for our part in the behavior. Granted, men who rape, beat and kill us are the extreme examples but why do we allow a culture that treats women as second class citizens? A culture that teaches little girls to be "nice" and little boys to not cry?
Peace.
2006-11-20 13:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men treat women that why. my wife left me and to this day says i was a great husband. and i still worry about here and help her out whenever i can
2006-11-20 12:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ron N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay man here. We gay men are not the ones who disrespect, beat, sexually harass, rape and abuse women. Contrary to what some claim, most gay men like women. I agree, though. A lot of heterosexual men should really clean up their act.
2006-11-20 12:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Angry Gay Man 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LGBT section! anyway, because they are dogs, and in order to feel good about themselves they put others down. they don't respect themselves so how can they respect others.
2006-11-20 15:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men are a$$ holes not all but most
2006-11-21 13:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋