hi if anyone is not happy in there relationship they should move on but sometimes its hard to do that because u may be with someone for a long time or they have kids but dont be with them because of the kids ect,
2006-11-20 04:42:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If this "question" (and I use the term loosely) is an example of how you communicate in your relationships, then perhaps it's understandable why you are unhappy.
Can you even articulate what happiness is?
Can you speak to your spouse in a clear fashion, with a focused sentance?
Does you communication with your spouse ramble like this question did?
If so, then perhaps what you need is some training in effective communication.
Just a shot in the dark here. It is not intended to be mean spirited, but to provoke thought. If you are hurt, I am sorry. I believe poor communication is at the root of a lot of unhappy relationships.
Your question makes me wonder if you can effectively communicate with your spouse.
2006-11-20 04:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are talking to your partner and keep the kids future in mind and I'm are sure If you have been together till you have kids you could work things out. Take time off and leave the daily rush behind (Its very easy to caught work and forget family in this technological time), go on vacation. sometimes we don't think clear when we are in the same environment and when we goto a different environment we see everything different at least for kids sake.
2006-11-20 12:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by MAKWAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like I am in that situation presently. If I told you the story about my husband (posted as "Possible Husband Abandonment"), you would probably say point blank leave him. But we have 14 years of history together and a son and thinking about leaving him is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I am in therapy to deal with my codependency issues. He needs to hit rock bottom because he has some issues, but all I want to keep doing is break the fall.
2006-11-20 12:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by Erica W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of why you loved the person in the first place. Then think what is missing can you not bring in what is missing to save your marriage. If you save your marriage you will feel better your spouse will feel better and the kids will be happy. It is worth staying together
2006-11-20 12:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are unhappy with your relationship then you should let it go. Sure it may be hard but its your life so you can choose what you want.
2006-11-20 12:47:34 · answer #5 · answered by Amaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isn't really a question...hmmmmm
moving on can be a lot harder than it sounds though. what if you will walk away with about a million dollars in debt, would you still walk away?!?
i agree couple should NOT stay in a relationship "for the kids"...that's just my two cents
2006-11-20 12:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the right idea move on it is hurting to the children to stay with someone unhappy it maks the kids unhappy
2006-11-20 12:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people have that problem and yes they stay for many reasons, kids, money, stability,
2006-11-20 13:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by crazzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the question?
2006-11-20 12:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a question in there somewhere?
2006-11-20 12:55:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋