cuz she's alittle bossy and rude, but she's all i have my dad died in 2002 and i have 2 sisters. and i wan't to stay close. what should i do. and now he said he doesn't want to have kids
2006-11-20 04:34:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can still stay close with your mother without moving in with her. I don't blame him, I wouldn't want to live with your mother either. Why can't you guys get your own place?
2006-11-20 04:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you recognize that he has a legitimate reason not to like her since she is rude and bossy towards him. However, she may be rude and bossy towards him because she notices someting about him that she doesn't like and therefore she may have a reason to dislike him. If the two of you have an alternative place to live maybe you should utilize it. If you really want your relationship to work, you should be aware that you are probably entering a situation that could tear you two apart. As far as him not wanting to have kids, if you want to have kids with him then your relationship is basically pointless. I wouldn't get that serious with someone who didn't want something as important as children. I personally don't want kids right now because i'm only 21 and i want to start my career first but i do want kids in the future. Therefore, i would not seriously date somebody that told me that he never wanted to have kids. It just wouldn't work. Good luck
2006-11-20 04:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 13:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say if he doesn't want to live w/ your mom then maybe he should get another job or a job so the two of you can get your own place, doesn't sound like he has room to complain when someone is willing to give him a place to rest his head. As far as not wanting to have children, with no home of your own that should be the last thing on your mind! I don't blame him there, maybe once the 2 of you get back on your feet and can support yourselves, maybe then he will reconsider children.But I would say if he doesn't like the situation then he needs to do something about it.
2006-11-20 04:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by michele_zanella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you moving back home with your boyfriend? Can't either one of you support yourselves? I would tell your boyfriend number 1, beggars can't be choosers, and number 2, as the mother is, the daughter will be and number 3, having children is a couples decision not one person's alone.
So if he doesn't like your mother, I have news for you - he isn't going to like you when you growup. At least as a deadbeat he's smart enough to know he shouldn't procreate.
Kick the loser to the curb. And you need to get a job.
2006-11-20 04:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is smart to not want kids after all you are not living on your own your getting mom to take care of you and your boyfriend Maybe you need to take care of YOURSELVES before you think about babies As for your mom being bossy and rude GET A GRIP or GET OUT it is her home Your lucky she is letting you live their with your boyfriend If you were my daughter I would tell you boyfriend to go home to his family or get a job and get his own place You sure wouldn't be piling up on me not being married and then complain that my attitude isn't just chipper and happy go lucky
2006-11-20 04:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by lynx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend are going to be freeloading off your MOM. And he doesn't want to because as you say she is a little bossy. Well tell the looser to get a job and get your own place.
2006-11-20 04:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say why you are both moving in with her. Right now, he is only your bf, not your husband. If you feel it is important for you to be with your family now, you need to go whether he wants to or not. If he doesnt want to , maybe he needs to get a little place of his own.
2006-11-20 04:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him to get a job and get a place of his own then. Either that it's his way of telling you that he is fustrated with the situation and doesn't want to marry into the family. If he wants to control the situation he has to get a job to get a place of his own.. you on the other hand has to decide who you want to be with your controling man or your family.
2006-11-20 04:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Damzel in distrust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait to move in together til you have enough money to support yourselves and not live with your mother. As far as the kids thing if he doesn't and you do then it's time to move on.
2006-11-20 04:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by briandjoesmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋