I have to observe and then write a paper. I am crazy nervous and I have no idea what to expect =( Please help me.
2006-11-20 04:23:05 · 8 answers · asked by KristenM 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
don't be nervous. it's all good. But you better call ahead first because the meeting aren't all open to non-alcoholics. There are only two open meeting where I live. The rest are closed.
2006-11-20 04:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Do You See What Happens Larry? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't right, but it can be part of a study on group dynamics and how they work. You'd be better off sitting in on a counseling session at a behavioral health center somewhere.
What to expect-ppl introduce themselves by first names only, then talk about their stories if they want to. They usually tell everyone how long they've been sober.
They are usually working off the AA 12 Step book which is their Bible, that supposedly helps them realize that they are powerless over their addiction without God's help. Some meetings are open freestyle and don't use the book at all, except that the AA member may be working the book on their own at home.
There is usually a sponsor involved who is another member who one calls in times of weakness and can also be thought of as an accountability partner.
Many end with the Serenity Prayer to God.
It would be helpful if you researched the history of AA then you would understand the philosophy behind the group. When I researched it, I basically found it was a Christian organization, had accountability, and that they have hope through God to overcome their addiction. Also, that it is a disease.
Good Luck !
2006-11-20 13:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are allowed to go to an open AA meeting, ALL are welcome at these meetings. Closed meetings are for alcoholics "with a desire to stop drinking" only. You should be able to find a meeting schedule online or calla local AA hotline number and ask for "open" meeting times. Don't be nervous, we're a good lot of people!! More people should know about alcoholism...feel free to email w/ any questions!
2006-11-20 12:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by onottopilot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As others have already suggested, check as to the time of an open meeting. At those meetings, you will be welcome to observe, but I definitely would not bring a tape recorder. THAT would be unethical as others would not know that you were recording them. You will be in a room full of people trying to better themselves. Be respectful; it's likely a greater challenge for them than for you. If you attend with an open mind and an open heart, you should have no problems.
2006-11-20 12:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by senlin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take notes or bring a tape recorder you can put in your pocket
(for your own notes only. I add that in consideration for paranoid people or those who find themselves more interesting than they are).
Just relax and enjoy it. Whatever ideas come to you and whatever moves you should inspire you for your paper.
You're basically observing people who are trying to change old habits and succeed on a new path. They're trying to support each other because it's difficult to not fall back into old ways.
2006-11-20 12:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I been to plenty so don't worry.You don't have to say a word but remember all that is said in there is confidential.So don't use names.Mabe talk to a a.a counseler
2006-11-20 12:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by Victorio 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That is unethical and your prof should know better, lol. If the people at AA find out what you are doing, they will kick you out if you are lucky. If you are unlucky, they will sue you, your prof, and your college (and win).
2006-11-20 12:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Just relax...you are going to do something new...it's natural to be nervous.
good luck :)
2006-11-20 12:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by invisible1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋