Hi
I don't have any sex with my wife because of her health problem.
Last week i went to my healt club to work out.
I went into the shower then the steam bath.
I was sitting on the second row and had my towel on my head and i felt someone massaging my ********** and it felt so good.
i let him continue.
what's wrong with me
2006-11-20 04:02:55 · 10 answers · asked by Jim W 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am sorry to hear about your wifes health. I hope she gets well soon. Anyway an incident like that does not automatically make you gay or bisexual, unless you intentionally went to the steam bath and waited for someone to massage you. You become bisexual or gay if you get sexual attractions of the same sex. There are male escorts who do it for money and they remain straight. For them its just a job and nothing more. Sex is sex whether it be straight or gay. Its up to you if you want to pursue it.
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2006-11-20 17:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're attracted to guys, then you are bi or gay. If you are not, then you enjoyed being massaged sexually, and the gender or the person doing it didn't matter as much as the sexual enjoyment.
This is normal. What is abnormal is the social pressures that make you feel guilty for enjoying sex, or for considering a same sex partner as being wrong.
2006-11-20 04:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You sound like you need some very personal attention, that is all.
Let it happen if you like it....sounds like a hot situation!
Just remember your life the way it is and don't blow it if you are happy. This part of your life may not be totally perfect, but what about the rest??
This is why I think so many men have anonymous handjobs or receive head, etc....that is what he did for you....he got his needs met and so did you....no harm done.....
2006-11-20 04:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean your gay or bi. your just extremly horny and any sexual interactions will arouse you. If your not attracted to the person then dont worry about it
2006-11-20 04:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by hottie_grl911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all is wrong with you . nothing. You needed relief since your skank of wife is cheating you out of her snatch.
some one came along and took care of your needs and you let him.
so what?????????
What's the big deal ????????????????????????
I'm sure your balls were happy on that day when you left the sauna. this guy did you a solid favor. Be glad
2006-11-20 05:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesn't make you gay or bi because you enjoyed another person playing with your penis. do you want it to happen again? do you want to reciprocate? if yes to either of these questions then you might be bi or gay.
2006-11-20 05:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you.if you enjoyed it then great continue exploring. dont get hung up on lables just be yourself
2006-11-20 04:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question
2006-11-20 04:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by brock 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a mistress. Fast.
2006-11-20 04:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
that was me and mmmmm you were awsome.
2006-11-20 07:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by jackwithme6969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋