what do you do when the kids of your partner dont like you either for your age,colour,creed or they just dont want thier dad or mom to be with you,and they want you two to break up?what do you say to them?
2006-11-20 03:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by no1queenofcharm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we live together and the kids live with thier mum who also has a younger boyfriend and the kids visit once a month.so now what should we do?
2006-11-20 04:05:20 · update #1
Talk to your partner. Maybe you all can go to counselling together to find out what issues they have. Good luck.
2006-11-20 03:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly, if they are evil----get away from them.If it were up to me, I'd let the parent know what your take is on the matter. That way if they flat out tell you that their children rule----Peace out.And do yourself a favor don't look back.Remember they been allowed to be disrespectful and they will not change.(be glad they are showing you this side)
2006-11-20 03:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh..."Goodbye"? Seriously, don't make it about you and your partner.....if the kids don't like you then you should both call it quits. Then, go find someone without kids. Your partner should be focusing on raising the children - not dating.
2006-11-20 03:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jeniphish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well......i have a stepfather who @ first i did'nt like and i wish i cud have my real father instead of him but then in time i've come to realize that it's not going 2 happen and that i shud be glad that i have my stepfather here...dont worry they'll come 2 love u soonn..but until then..dont yell @ them or nything 4 no reason and be good to them....even though u probly are!! tootlesss
2006-11-20 03:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by *BrItNeY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the children are a big part of your parteners world you have to ask your self do you except him and his kids as a package or wish he never had kids. i have kids and no husband whom ever i shoose to be with needs to relize my kids come first not what i want or think but they come first
2006-11-20 03:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a problem for their birth parent to attend to. If they don't want to, or simply won't for whatever reason, I would seriously reconsider the relationship.
2006-11-20 03:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by his_scarlett_ohara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋