Basically i,ve just had the scare of my life when my partner told me she might be pregnant while i was abroad, she told me she missed her period by quite a few days , she was on the pill for many months and we had unprotected sex constantly .She took a pregnancy test and it was positive and she said that if she is ,she would be 4 weeks plus,so i flew back straight away to be with her.We were gonna go to the doctor but we chose to have do another test to make sure.It was negative, so we thought she does,nt need to go.Since then i have looked up on pregnancy,tests etc... and i,m getting second thoughts that she might be pregnant even though the test was negative as sometimes they are not accurate, she has gone home to spain for 3 months but i have this feeling that she might be pregnant. What to do?
2006-11-20
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kwatt40000
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Pregnancy & Parenting
➔ Pregnancy
Well, i am in the kinda the same boat right now. i believe i am pregnant but the tests are saying negitive. There are many things that can make the tests become inaccurate, such as birth control(if she is still taking it) Tell your partner that you are worried & tell her how these tests can become inaccurate for many reasons. Let her know you would feel a lot better if she had a blood test done, (That is what i am going to do, acually tomarrow) just to be safe & then you will know for sure. Good-Luck
2006-11-21 10:08:55
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answered by Country Girl 1
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The real question is do you mind her being pregnant and possibly having your child? If she has gone home to Spain, is she Spanish? If you do not mind then there is no problem, get together properly and enjoy your first born. If you are not to pleased about it then you are in a bit of trouble. If she is on the pill then she is not a Catholic. If I were you I would get over to Spain and be with her until she is sure one way or the other. Do you love her and do want to spend the rest of your life with her? Questions,questions all for you to think about and come up with an answer. Get everything resolved quickly then you can either move on or move in.
2006-11-20 03:53:42
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answered by Anonymous
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hi, i had a negative test with my first pregnancy. tests apparently can be wrong with a negative, but a positive is always a positive. i have never heard of anyone getting a wrong positive. i would advise a doctors appointment to confirm properly. it all has something to do with a certain hormone being released in the body. the best time to do a test is first thing in the morning. hope this helps.
2006-11-20 03:44:14
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answered by L J 1
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she needs to go to a dr to geta blood test done, they are 100% accurate.Altough I must say...if she already got a positive pg test chances are she's pg. If she got a positive it's because she has hcg (pg hormone) in her body. It's very rare to get false positive results, unlike false negatives...those are very common and the tests brands maybe set up differently to read the hormones in her body. I think you're gonna be a daddy.
2006-11-20 03:44:51
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answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6
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there is a really good chance she is as some tests come back negative and some positive,i,ve got 4 kids and 3 of them came back negative but here they are,it depends on the woman and how much hcg(pregnancy hormones)she develops,hope this helps
2006-11-20 03:41:36
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answered by missy79 2
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if she wants to keep the baby what's the fuss
she will just come home four months pregnant it she don't want a baby then she will have to do something about it surely you will be speaking to her wont you. sometimes a test can give a false negative but usually not a false positive, phone her and ask he if her period has come. hope you get the answer you want.
2006-11-20 06:06:07
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answered by twinsters 4
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definite, you are able to get pregnant from precum. It sounds like you're pregnant so for you to take a attempt to ascertain. Dont ignore there are continually pretend negatives so take more beneficial than one to be particular. best of success!!
2016-10-16 09:48:15
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answered by ? 2
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Take her to the doctor and get a blood test.... it's the safest thing to do, because if she is pregnant, she will want to get on prenatal's right away, and stop smoking and drinking if she does either of those!! Good luck!
2006-11-20 03:40:29
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answered by Double G 3
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Hpt are 99% accurate. If you are still unsure then your girlfriend needs to see the doctor. You need to be with her so you are both aware of the situation and can be definite with her answer. If she is only 4weeks then you do still have plenty of time to make any decisions. Make your decisions together and don't be too hasty to decide.
Good luck xx
2006-11-20 04:24:27
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answered by SARAH S 3
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you need to go see an obgyn. This can be seriouse. If she was pregnant and misscarried then she may need a d&c. That would be the worst case sinerio. But You need to have her take a blood test to be sure everything is ok.
2006-11-20 03:41:10
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answered by sr22racing 5
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