2006-11-20 03:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by cjude87 2 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
im talking bout generally...and i mean what if the baby is already born? wats the solution?
2006-11-20 03:17:11 · update #1
The best thing would be to put the baby up for adoption. If the baby is unwanted then it will be unloved and uncared for. The best decision would be to let someone who actually wants the baby to have a chance to raise him/her.
2006-11-20 03:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Stacy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think adoption is the best bet. Unfortunately, SOOOO many people these days are just abandoning their babies! So much so, that they have made certain areas "acceptable" places to drop off a baby, no questions asked. Not sure if you've heard about it... but people are able to legally abandon a newborn (or probably any child actually, but it's generally newborns) at a hospital, fire hall and I think church. This sounds horrible... but it's an attempt by these agencies to end the practice of "dumpster babies"... where people simply toss them in a trash can or leave them in a public restroom, etc. At least by making certain areas (which are staffed 24/7) available, it ensures that the baby will be immediately taken and cared for... much better than the alternative. I think everyone is aware of adoption, but unfortunately, not everyone is aware of the fairly new baby abandonment laws. We have to remember that it's the very "bottom of the barrel" so to speak that needs to know about this policy (where it's okay to leave a baby). People with money and/or education know their options already (generally speaking)... it's the severely impoverished, the extremely young and even the mentally unstable that are typically those "dumping" babies. Teens who hide their pregnancy the entire time and somehow feel it's better to dump the child than to let down their parents...
Anyway... just a policy that's fairly new that needs to be publicized more. I'm NOT saying it's okay to abandon your baby. You should make plans LONG before it's birth (whether it be abortion - which I don't advocate!-, adoption, etc). Like others have said, really it's something you should be "prepared" for before having sex... but that's VERY unlikely in today's society. I'm just saying... I'd rather see a baby handed over to a nurse at a hospital than left alone to die in a cold trash can on the street.
2006-11-20 11:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by kittikatti69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is to use protection for the door. Don't produce what you do not want or that you are not ready for. Abstain. There is always adoption. Find a good agency. Remember too, parents are loving and good supporters. They maybe able to help keep the baby while the person continues with life.
2006-11-20 11:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best solution for the babies would have been if those undeserving couple had not concieved them. Here I am speaking of those consensual intercourses between two seemingly sane adult 'parents'. Never call them 'unwanted babies'. Only those parents can be deemed as 'unwanted'!! The next best solution is to allow willing, responsible, caring and loving people nurture these children of god, as their own...
2006-11-20 12:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by deevoonay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adoption is the best option!
My miracle baby was a gift from a woman who found herself pregnant and couldn't care for him. She wanted him to go to a home where he would be given love. This was a very unselfish decision on her part. I will always be thankful to her for her unselfish act of love. If she had been selfish, I would of never been able to experience the most wonderful experience of being my son's mom. My son is now 23 yrs old and still is and will always be my miracle :)
2006-11-21 00:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best solution is being ready for the possibility of having a baby before you have sex.
2006-11-20 11:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by togashiyokuni2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off.....protection if you don't want a baby. Then adoption. There are many people out there who can't have babies and would love to have yours.
2006-11-20 11:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda SSS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to have one if your not ready.Use protection! And if you already have it.Well there's no turning back now.There is always adoption too.There are plenty of people who can't have a family and want one.
2006-11-20 11:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by chrissy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋