So heres the situatuion.met this boy 4 years ago when i was about to turn 11. Well, we went out on and off for a year then decided that we were "meant" for eachother [teenage love] any ways the whole time i knew him a treated him wrong butwe were happy with each other. Well two years ago, he went to jail because someone falsly accused him of something he didnt do. Well, i have not talked to him or saw him since then. But he had 5 brothers that would come to my house and update me on news and stuff and they allways told me that he said he loved me.. Well tommorrow he gets a home visit and im scared... or should i say paranoid? Anyways im soo scared that hes not going to like me or we wont even talk because i am really laid back and shy now... and none oof my friends will go over to his house with me so im going to be in a room full with his family... I have no idea what to do.. i saw a picture of him and i know that he has changed.. im just scared to go over there and scared if i dont Should i let him be with his family today?
2006-11-20 03:05:42 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes you should definetely let him spend time with his family, but yes you should also go over there to spend time with him or meet him at a local diner or whatever to spend some time with you. If you don't you will regret it. You need to see how he is now, in order to see if you want anything to go further. If you are afraid, meeting him somewhere public will take some of that fear or pressure off.
2006-11-20 03:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him some time. He's obviously been through a lot. Back off for at least a day, and then go to him. Say you missed him a lot and stuff like that. Say that you are very sorry that you haven't been in contact and that you'll always be there for him. If I were you, I'd have a speech prepared. Keep him happy for a while and ease him back to a normal life.
2006-11-20 11:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents should be put in jail for allowing you to "go out" at the age of 11, So if I understand your question you now are 14 or 15. You say your scared good. My god you still should not be going out, slow down and just enjoy being a kid. Stay away totally.
2006-11-20 11:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u are certain that the accusation are false, then u have nothing to fear or be paranoid of. If he loves u as he says then he will like u for sure, but anyways u have to do what your heart tells u.
2006-11-20 11:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Paolo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...firstly why dont you talk to his brthers and see what you should do cuz in a way if you dont stop by his house then he'll think wrong of you cuz of all that has happened to him....so yeah talk to his brothers and most likely they'll tell you the best choice right?
2006-11-20 11:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let him be with his family then go over there after a certain time and tell him how u feel
2006-11-20 11:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you LET him...lol....Your have no control of what or who he sees. If you think that you could keep him away from his family your more immature then you think! He has the right to see his family. If you cant understand that then you don't need to be with him.
2006-11-20 11:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Let him be with his family. If he calls and requests that you come over, then consider it. But wait it out. See where he takes it all.
2006-11-20 11:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should not go over I will go out with you to help you ok I think your hot
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2006-11-20 11:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by JB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be with is family,let him contact you.He may have changed to a different person.
2006-11-20 11:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by HummerBabemv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋