I am in high school and usually boys don't talk to me any other than just friends like to hang out and play ball. Should I be worried? What should I do? I tired of just being another ball player.
2006-11-20 01:39:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't worry about being with guys right now. The only thing you should be worried about is school work. I was the most quiet kid in my class and never had a REAL gf untill I was out of school and working. I was always so depressed about not having any friends or girlfriends and it always showed in my grades. Now I have a loving gf of almost 4 years and things are great. All im saying is have fun and work hard. Also if there is a guy you REALLY like..... THEN ASK HIM OUT! There is nothing more of a turn on for me than when a girl asks ME out. Most of the time if you like a guy, then he probably likes you.
2006-11-20 01:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to worry. just be yourself. i think you would like a guy to like you for what your real personality is. it's hard to be something you're not ALL the time. you'll just make yourself miserable that way. if you like ball continue to play ball, don't stop. enjoy the sport. right now, the right guy is not out there for you, but he will come along, you're still very young, so relax, have fun. you are probably making more guy friends, without even knowing it, because you have something in common with them - sports. believe me, that's a lot more in common than a lot of girls that are dating guys.
2006-11-20 10:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people don't like to talk to you then I guess you're bothered by simply asking the question... You don't need to be worried if you don't like to hang with them either but if you are longing to, then you should be.
I think its time that you act. Take the initiative to stand up and appoach them! Engage into a conversation. Discuss on things that you both are interested and be friendly... It's no use to sit around and wait for people to talk to you... You should take the first step... Good luck!!!
2006-11-20 09:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by aya minamino 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you act like one of the guys, then they will treat you like one of the guys. I don't want to tell you to be someone you're not. Just wait, there will be a guy who will fall in love with you because you are fun, cool, and sporty...and not because you try to be more girly.
Besides, if you try to be someone you're not and then your guy friends start flirting with you then they're really not interested in you as a girlfriend, but who you are pretending to be. Always be yourself. Never compromise. ;)
2006-11-20 10:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being more feminine. Wear clothes that fit good, show a little skin mayyyybe. It can be a simple as changing your hair, do change who you are just change up your style.
2006-11-20 09:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by caligurrl3634 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being one of the guys. Look at other girls & see how they act & dress & try to be more like a girl. I'm not saying to try to be someone you're not, just be more like a girl.
2006-11-20 09:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to be more outgoing get noticed not n a bad or slutty way but use your talents to get your attention
2006-11-20 10:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lynnette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ders no need to get worried . it happens many a times
2006-11-20 09:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by tanu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emrace ur femine side and c wut happens
2006-11-20 09:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋