i look every day for the porn my boyfriend has looked at on his pc i want to look cause he always lies 2 me bout it an i wanna know wots so bad that i cant see. i search from the second he leaves till the second he gets back and i cant seem 2 stop. any ideas? i know how stupid this is But i cant stop
2006-11-20 01:33:19 · 27 answers · asked by pongo_jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think a more important question is -- if the porn bothers you so much, why are you still with this guy? Also, if he lies to you, why are you still with him? Finding the answers to those questions will help you break the habit because you'll either come to the conclusion that you love him regardless of his desire to view porn, or you'll conclude that you simply cannot live with that and his lying about it, and you'll move on to better things.
2006-11-20 01:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to avoid porn addiction on the Internet
1. Consider installing porn content filtering software( Strongly Recommend NetDog ,you can get it from www.netdogsoft.com ) on your computer. it will help to protect you from stumbling into pornography by accident, That's important.
2. Do not try to guess what the address of a Web page is. Many pornographic sites have similar addresses of respectable sites. For example www . whitehouse . com is a porn site. The real address is www. whitehouse . gov
3. Never click on Web site addresses that you receive in an unsolicited email.
4. Do not open attachments that come in email that are unsolicited.
5. Use filtered search engines or reputable directories to find the information you need.
6. Do not search for terms like girls. Think before you enter a search term.
Stick with reputable sites.
If something looks questionable, don't let curiosity get the best of you. Delete it or close the window.
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2006-11-20 19:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know for a FACT that he is looking at stuff? I admit if I knew someone was snooping on my computer I'd be ticked off enough to look at sites just to annoy or confuse the snooper. If you don't trust him you should not be with him, and he may be testing you. Men do not cease communication or friendship with every other female on planet Earth just because they are in a relationship. If he's visiting online porn maybe you should learn what his intrests are, if they do not include you or anything you do, then maybe it's time to learn or quit.
2006-11-20 01:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When do you bite your nails? If you bite them only when you are stressed, subconsciously make an effort to stop. Bring something with you, like a stressball, to squeeze instead of biting your nails. If you bite them just when you are bored, I have heard that this works, especially if your tolerance for hot stuff is low- paint your nails, but into the paint, add some tobasco sauce and cayenne pepper! Next time you chew your nails, you'll get the "spice shock" and not want to chew them again!
2016-05-21 22:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just beleive him and stop being addicted to porn use the energy and time you had to look and search and use it to do other things maybe find a site with games or go outside and play a sport with your friend
2006-11-20 01:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by erin g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "Petunia". You are being very obsessive, immature, stay off the computer, if not erase the "history" as soon as you get on the computer. Have you discussed with your b/f his "habits"? See a doctor, you may have an under laying medical condition that requires medication.
2006-11-20 01:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do the same thing, really.It is stupid, though it's better for him to look at porn than actually sleep around. It also gives him ideas on what you may like him to do.
2006-11-20 01:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by The Way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a new habit. Maybe every time you want to snoop you can write 10 good things about him instead.
2006-11-20 01:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Zoey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. stop and breathe take sometime away from the computer do something else for a change go out with friends turn off the computer and get your life back learn to take controll
2006-11-20 01:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by girly_down_n_south 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop. Stop now before you get caught. NOT worth it, it's just porn. ALTHOUGH...If you are jealous...Take naughty pics of yourself, pic a fave, and store it as his screen saver. After looking at you, he won't need to look at porn....
2006-11-20 01:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋