they think that you are trying to get with their best friend then at the same time,their family hates you with all their might. what do you do or say when you know all of these things(but the people who r saying and doing these things dont know you know) and you just want them to stop?
can anyone help me?
2006-11-20 01:30:24 · 4 answers · asked by jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well first of all you know who you care about and that should be your concern because god knows that family can be so cruel when they feel that the guy or girl has made the wrong choice but that's just it. They can't make that choice and as for the things that people say just let them talk it should make you feel important that they have nothing better to do with their time than talk about that wonderful you. Just kill them with kindness that's always the best way to skin a cat and see how they like that! Good Luck!
2006-11-20 01:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is.. be honest. Take the person you care about aside, or out, and tell them openly that you care about one person only, and that is NOT their best friend. Then let them find out from you who it really is.
Relationships are not about suffering in silence, you have to know what you want and go for it. Honesty is a great thing here, but don't be ALL open, a little mystery is a GOOD thing! :)
2006-11-20 09:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ishani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what people is saying if it's not true. Convince the person you care about how you really feel and let him know you are not doing the things you are accused of.
2006-11-20 09:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the family dont like you move on cause you dont want to get involved with someone when the family dont like you trust me it will just cause more hate and rumors then you deserve trust i wont work i have tried a few times
2006-11-20 09:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by angie f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋