We have sex at least once a day and it hurts bad when we do it in certain positions. He's not going too deep either. Why is this?
2006-11-20 01:07:14 · 18 answers · asked by dnlmndyr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i'm not dry....the pain is from inside like he is hitting something.
2006-11-20 01:20:17 · update #1
Pain with deep penetration usually comes from the deeper organs being tender. This includes the ovaries, uterus, bladder, and even the intestines. the most common reasons for deep pain are ovarian cysts.This is what i had when sex hurt with my husband.i went to my doctor and he gave me a treatment that really worked.Sex should not hurt.U should go to a doctor for a check up.
2006-11-20 01:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be a lot of reasons. You might have a tipped uterus. Or endometriosis. Or cysts. Or an STD. If you've had children you might have scarring from tears or the epesiotomy.
Try taking a break for a couple of days from the sex and go see a doctor. It's embarrassing sometimes to explain to someone but it will be for the best in the long run. At least you will have answers. If you continue on the course you're on now you will begin to dread the sex and your husband will resent the fact that you are not as 'into' it as you used to be. Once kids and the rest of married life enter into the equation (lack of sleep, stress, etc.) your sex drive may diminish, anyway. But it's best to address this ASAP. You might find that there is a more serious health issue that you caught early enough to make a difference.
Good luck - and don't put off a trip to your doctor!
2006-11-20 09:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by greyrider 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go see you local GP or Gynie about it Hon. Or if you are too embarrassed, get some books on different positions, and try them until you find the ones most comfortable to you. Sometimes, people who have back problems find sex painful. It could be something very simple. Don't leave it tho, because you will eventually not want to have sex anymore and you will be missing out on the most wonderful thing in the world - making love!
2006-11-20 09:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You possibly have something going on down there like maybe a cyst, fibroid tumor or scar tissue. I have a fibroid and when my husband and I do it doggie style, it is pretty painful. Make sure you mention this to the doctor at your next check-up and he will probably schedule a ultrasound just to be certain. It is nothing to be alarmed about, many women have them and don't know it, but uncomfortable sex was my first clue. Good-luck and make sure you have a pap test once a year, you are worth it.
2006-11-20 09:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've had the same problem and am now totally afraid to have sex - and I'm married. I ended up having surgery because I was so small down there. My doctor prescribes me a pill to take after sex - but I don't like medications. So I basically just don't have sex. I know exactly the pain you get and it's awful.
2006-11-20 09:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes at different positions i hate to sound ugly but that's the saying he is all up in there. And they touch things that they probably shouldn't be touching. Unless there is something else going on with the wound and if it continues to happen i would talk to my doctor about it.
2006-11-20 09:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a doctor, but there are a number of physical reasons this could be happening. A tipped uterus is one of them. Go to your gynecologist and have yourself checked out. Sex should be fun and pleasant. You don't want to eventually get to the point you don't want it anymore due to the pain.
Best wishes
2006-11-20 09:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have him warm you up a little more with foreplay. Sometimes it will hurt if the women is not excited enough because the cervix has not gotten into place to receive the man's penis. If that doesn't work see your doctor their maybe a medical explanation.
2006-11-20 09:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by MG Honey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There can be many reasons to feel pain during sex:
Pelvic Inflammatory Disease
Endometriosis
Interstitial cystitis
Vaginismus
Vulvodynia
Some sexually transmitted diseases
Urinary infections
Vaginal dryness
Physical injury and chronic pain
2006-11-20 09:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by laneige 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its important for both of u to foreplay & get aroused like ufeel juicy and he has a proper erection this will help uhim to penetrate as deep as possible a bj goes along way in real erection and avoid sex daily 2/3 times a week is best
2006-11-20 09:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by shaikhudude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋