2006-11-20 01:06:28 · 7 answers · asked by Dean 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The relationship of ones parents has a lot to do with their adult relationships, whether or not the parents were divorced. If you come from parents who fought all the time, you will unconsciously believe that fighting is the way to communicate in a relationship. It's difficult to stand back and look at your parent's relationship and determine how to have a successful relationship. You also need to look at the way the parent's relating to the children regarding the divorce. It takes someone with a lot of insight to look at the whole picture and then form a loving relationship. There are many books on successful marriages, communications and relationships. Also, going for therapy can be very insightful and helpful that you won't repeat your parents mistakes. Good Luck!
2006-11-20 01:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as Oprah best put it "No child comes out unscathed" (translation no child is raised no matter how perfect of a job they think that they may have done, a child will always come out with some emotional scaring". However, I must say that although some individuals are Strong enough to be determined to have successful marriages and relationships that fact that they (in their life) have experienced divorce leaves some room for error due to the fact that they didn't have an example for a bases to follow.
2006-11-20 01:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ingredient that effected me the most replaced into my observe of for my mom replaced into damaged for a lengthy time period. My opinion of ladies people commonly replaced into effected by that, even although i do not carry a grudge anymore (she cheated on my father). Then many years later she determined shall we flow a pair thousand miles remote from my dad grandparents ect to be the position her second husband might want to get more effective "gigs" (he replaced right into a drummer). So I have some separation rigidity and that i have a tendency to harden my heart to people so as now to not get damage even as/in the journey that they go away. i imagine i'm getter more effective at dealing with it although. undemanding i imagine it made me more suitable. That alongside with another complicated issues I have delt with. I have had some lengthy time period relationships. by no potential been married. Im 26 now and that i'm in no rush to the regulate. i'm with a guy now who i imagine i am going to marry sometime, so Im satisfied. My courting with my mum and dad is solid, yet i'm in route of my grandparents than both of them. My mom and that i do not extremely have plenty in difficulty-loose. So besides the undeniable fact that we get alongside we do not have plenty to discuss. My dad isn't the fatherly kind. i recognize he loves me and we get alongside tremendous and do percentage difficulty-loose interests, yet we do not communicate that a lot or see one yet another even although I have in view that moved decrease back to an similar city. Oh i have no childrens nor do i favor any. I by no potential did so as that has not something to do with the divorce.
2016-11-29 07:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One certain effect for a person's parents in their relationships is that they both end up divorcees.
2006-11-20 01:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by calvin o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a little more skeptical and deep down you know that any relationship can fall apart
2006-11-20 01:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you don't want it to
2006-11-20 01:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SURE WILL
2006-11-20 01:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋