or would you rather he just had affairs as long as he didn't leave you?
2006-11-20 01:01:01 · 15 answers · asked by uknowme 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we all would prefer not to marry someone who cheats but let's face it marriage doesn't always work. I ask because I know a guy cheating on his wife and a friend of his who left his wife then started dating someone. The first guy thinks the 2nd is sc** for leaving. I say let me pack your bags I'll drop you off at her house.
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2006-11-20 01:08:49 · update #1
I would definately prefer him to leave, cuz he wouldnt be staying in my bed if he was putting things where they dont belong.
2006-11-20 02:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer not to marry a man who was 1) going to have affairs and/or 2) going to leave me.
I was fortunate to find a nice and loving husband.
2006-11-20 01:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on his reasons for cheating. If it were just for sexual gratification, and I thought our marriage was fine other than that, he can go, and I'll pack his bags for him. But if we're having serious problems, and there are marital issues that led to it, then I'd have to evaluate what part I played in it all, and work toward resolving them with him,... if thats what we both decided we wanted.
2006-11-20 01:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 10:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would rather him leave than to cheat on me.
If you are fine with him sleeping with other people....he should be fine with you doing the same. Some people have "open" marriages. For me I couldn not live with things like that.
Good luck to you!
2006-11-20 01:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tolerate any unloyalty in my relationship. What will eventually hurt more is you staying knowing that he doesn't want you. YOU make the decision to leave when he cheats, he's already choose his by cheating!
2006-11-20 01:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would rather him leave me altogether. You don't want someone that is going to cheat on you.
2006-11-20 01:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Virginia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a boundary that will force me to remove myself from his life permanently. My husband knows this and understands that in order to keep me he must choose me.
2006-11-20 01:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by Myrmaad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to stay while cheating, make the relationship open so you can both get some...
2006-11-20 01:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either dump him, or join him. If you wanna stay with this dude, then tell him that you want an open relationship so that you can do the same. If he doesn't want that, or you don't, then kick his sorry a-ss outta there!
2006-11-20 01:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋