actually i love one girl 8 years ago & due to certain problem, she got married to some body & due to this i can't forgot her & think she will come back any ways. in my life again & i want to wait for her & therefore i want to ignore marriage any how!
2006-11-20 00:32:40 · 14 answers · asked by pt_007in 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey, youre heart isnt in the right place man! you have a lifetime to wait but a lifetime to waste. your will must aligned to the will of God in your life. The woman you love 8 years ago will not be the same woman you love at this very moment. Put yourself in a mirror and tell yourself what a handsome guy like you wasting your life in waiting. It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all..Go back to the basic.
2006-11-20 00:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by REBEL SAINT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand your problem. This can happen with anybody. I think, in that case, you should avoid attending her marriage invitation. But if your family members want to go and eat there, what can you do? It is their independent decision to attend there, if they wish. You cannot press down your opinions on somebody else's shoulder. I have failed to make any meaning from your sentence---"may my family member's knew it, and i don't ever regret about it also". What do you mean? Do your family members know it? What do you do not regret? Their knowing about this matter? Or they will know after you have posted your question to Yahoo Answers? This is not clear. If you mean that they have known it, and you do not regret that they have known it, then I would say that, even after knowing the incident, if they think to go and eat there, what can you do except expressing your discomfort or anger to you family members? I think it would be better if only you avoid the invitation. Because, after so many things happened, you should not go there like a shameless man and eat like a prestige-less Rakshas. You can patch up relation in future, if situation permit you to do so. But I have seen in most cases, they never patch up. A distance always remain between them, unless the cold air of ripe old age affect both of them at a point, when no senior relatives, friends are alive upon this earth to share their feelings, even their own siblings are busy with their own lives.
2016-03-19 11:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know one thing? you waiting for her is hurting her, and her marriage life, so better go ahead and get married to the one you have got proposed to, that would help you to get ease in life and she also can be comfortable that you are happy, all love stories does not have happy endings, like no one can wait for someone whole life. Trust me you would be much more happier than before.
2006-11-20 02:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the proposing girl no then break up with her. if you are not going to marry her let her find someone who will. you shouldn't wait for this other girl though. she may never leave him and you should be finding a love that can be returned, not waiting for a love that belongs to another. if she loved you as much as you say you love her, she would not have married someone else. she has moved on and so should you. good luck.
2006-11-20 00:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okaaay....I would suggest a cave in a mountian where you can "hermit" away the rest of your life waiting.
Carrying a torch for someone who got married 8 years ago indicates a problem to me. How can you be focused on something that is ancient history?
2006-11-20 00:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
May be she loved you at that time but does she still love you,8 yrs. is a very long time.It is possible that she has accepted the situation & changed herself accordingly,you should do the same.If you are not intersted in what your parents are putting towards you find yourself the one you like,there's no point in waiting for her
2006-11-20 05:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not respond to her. Ignore her. It indicates that you are refusing her offer for marriage.
2006-11-20 04:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by naari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude shes married and moved on. you should not sit and wait for her. but do not get married to someone else just because shes married. let her go and move on with your life.
2006-11-20 16:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by kameo_44 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry one of them and now one ask you marry again and time will change everything .....
dont think too much
read as hindi > SITARO SE AAGE JAHAN OR BHI HAI...........be positive
goodluck
2006-11-20 00:44:43 · answer #9 · answered by jain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is with you then it is not a problem but if she is not then is something difficult to forget her marriage
2006-11-20 00:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Naina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋