i had a child 3 yrs back. after that he just stopped making love to me. he says he loves me. and there is nobody in his life. when he is near me he just shouts at me but once away he showers love 4 me. i am just confused.
2006-11-20 00:31:51 · 26 answers · asked by tanya_mittal44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Showering is good :)
Peace
2006-11-20 00:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear I am also married and i am having 3 yrs old son, i Love my wife very much, sometimes i get so upset with the happenings arround that i give showerings to her, and sometimes i care her like anything, these are ups and downs of life, every day is not a Good day and Every day is not a Bad day, but for sure I love my wife all the time, may be the situation has made me react other way, so please understand the situation and do not over react it would really break up relations, i m very thankful to my wife in this case, whenever i get upset i keep shouting at her and she simple listens and atlast she says shall we go for Dinner now, this one thing makes my anger go away like a wind.
2006-11-20 10:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe having the baby changed your looks and the way you act towards him. Do you dress the same as u used to ? Do you still try to make him feel like he is number one in your world? Think about it maybe you changed in some ways and need to return to the way you were before the baby came. Gaining weight after having a baby can be a big turnoff for a man.
2006-11-20 08:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mister R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u need to spend some time alone doing ur own things.. this will increase the want for the company.. believe me i know i was in the same situation, it helped me, so u can give it a go..
After a while we then did some things together - fun things like go to the movies or for a romantic dinner with just us, it was the best thing for our relationship. Now i can see it has paid off, u just need to communicate with him about it and work out whats best for u. hope this helps, email me if u need more help ;) hykaz24@yahoo.com.au
2006-11-20 08:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u increase weight during pregnancy if yes then try too loose it. a woman change so many things after that, figure is main in it ....may be ur hubby wants u as beautiful as u were before u give birth ur child ..don't be sad everything will be alright goodluck.
2006-11-20 16:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like DE Jae VI' to me, this is what I did; took him to the Dr. because he had such low testerone levels all his desire was gone. Seems it ran in his family, men having low levels. He was all kissy face but we had relations only once a month. Go Now, Get Him To A Dr! If he won't go then you ask your Dr. what you could do to boost his testerone level.
2006-11-20 08:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
whenever he is with you, just give him some kisses and wear sexy dresses and change your dress in front of him and make him to come to mood, so that he feel like loving you and you just try and see.Hopefully it will do good.All the best
2006-11-20 14:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by suga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u be more sexy when he is home and when hes a away and calls u u can chat to him in the sexiest way u can this will make him want u and come home running
if that don't work he is gay or hes too stressed at work u nead to help him
2006-11-21 17:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by 18 and over 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he still "loves you" as the mother to his child,maybe he's just "falling out of love" with you. Either way he's not happy,your not happy and something has to change,or someone needs to move out.
2006-11-20 08:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear iam sorry to say his's having an affair.simply saying love u doesn't mean he loves u, if he really then why hes not making love to u?MAN WITHOUT SEX noway.something mushy abt him.
maybe he misunderstood u,his Ur hubby speak frankly with him Wat went wrong.don't shy speak the truth.nobody will solve Ur problem its only u dear who can do.other side is Ur n his parents.open the situation to them let them decide.dammit Ur also a human being,how long Ulla bear.gud luck to u.
2006-11-22 11:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have lost your charm for him.Reinvent your self for him.Look after your self very well.Your body is not the same after all these years. Tone up your body and present to him in most seducing way possible.
2006-11-20 13:09:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋