My boyfriend of 4 years and i went camping this weekend with my family and his friend. it was raining and cold so i sat in the tent. it was just me, his friend and himself. he left me there alone to go look at the lions. my feelings are very hurt because he just left me alone, and when i try talk to him he tells me to keep quiet and says im upset because its that time of the month! he makes me so angry and upset. why must i just bottle things up? i even said i dont want to fight, just talk and he got cross. any one got some views on that?
2006-11-20 00:17:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey girl, u are way to emotional. Let go of such silly things. Tell yourself maybe he need to attend a nature call than seeing the lion. If u dont let go of such minor feelings then ul actually be risking ur relationship U never knows when his patience may run out and since its that time of the month where ur logical thinking is actually on its low. better be safe and use ur brain then behaving silly.
2006-11-20 00:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Tanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to rethink continuing a relationship with this young man. I would assume the whole purpose of going on the trip in the first place was to have fun...together! If he's going to leave you alone and take off somewhere else then you could've stayed at home or gone camping by yourself.
Then when you try to talk to him and tell him how you feel he cops an attitude?!??? The most vital part of any relationship is communication. Without that there is no relationship. If he is this bone-headed and unconcerned about your feelings now, what will it be like later on? If he is unwilling to take the time to hear what you have to say then cut him loose and move on. You deserve better and it will be his loss.
2006-11-20 08:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y i saw nothing in this. U r unnecessarily worried abt this. Since all of u went out, he just wanted to see the lions, but not of the intention to leave u alone. So just forget abt this and be cool and when he is in a good mood, just say him that he should have'nt left that time.
2006-11-20 08:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if he won't talk to you, you don't have much of a relationship. But if he and his friend went out why didn't you go be with your'e family instead of sitting by your self? Sounds like you are just mad that they went out for a while. just because he's your boyfriend it doesn't mean you have to be together 24/7. Relax and stop with the attitude.
2006-11-20 08:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry nothing to worry about. Guys are like that certain things which may seem important to us but not to them. When they realize they dont like to talk abt it coz they feel guilty and dont want it to make a big deal.
Relax, i think he reallized just dont make a big fuss about it. Good luck !
2006-11-20 08:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cannot bottle all up.. on day the bottle will get so filled up and explode..... that will ruin everything... just open up each time to him him how u feel abt a given situation....
he bas to accept his faults and face the truth...........
dont make a mistake by moving on with him if he is the type that refuses the truth .... i have been there so i know wat i am saying.....open up always... make him deal with his faults and the truth... if he cant, then he is not right for u
2006-11-20 08:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by sniggy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he was there to have fun, nothing to get mad about.
2006-11-20 08:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea on what to say, sort it out yourself
2006-11-20 08:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋